or should i slap him and broke my friendship with him
2006-10-22 23:17:24 · 17 answers · asked by veby_04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
even if i forget evrything and be like what we were i just cant be like that
2006-10-22 23:26:35 · update #1
Why would you slap him??? ... be flattered ... it may be the only proposal you ever get.
The poor guy has offered you his heart and you, you ungrateful B*tch want to slap and ignore him .... if you don't like him as much as he obviously like you ... just be gentle and tell him so and be glad that he cares so much for you.
2006-10-22 23:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't break your friendship just because he proposed. that would be very immature of you plus how many best friends do you get in a life time? don't lose him simply because he love you too much and you love him a little bit less.
when he's proposing to you, you reply " oh you are so funny" and if he says "i'm serious." then tell him if he wants to marry you, might as well go out and try to become boyfriend and girlfriend first before getting married. and if you aren't into him romantically at all, you gotta tell him seriously too, esp if he's seriously in love with you.
don't be too harsh, put yourself in his shoes so you know what way not to hurt him too much.
2006-10-22 23:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He proposed what??
If he has romantic feelings for you, I should think you'd be flattered,
If you care for him as a friend, (but not as a boyfriend) then I would think you'd try to let him down easy. He's already going to "die" of humiliation, so hitting him or ignoring him will be cruel over-reactions.
A sad last observation--
Women and Men just about Never become "just friends" unless the guy is hoping it will progress to romance. The woman has judged him deficient--(not good-looking enough, not wealthy enough, whatever,) but permits him to hang around like a spare she hopes she'll never need...
2006-10-22 23:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how you feel about him and whether you would like an intimate relationship with him, if not, just tell him that you would like to be friends and not let proposal get in the way of friendship
2006-10-22 23:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by sweetangelicnikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it obviously will be very weird between ye after this.Did you see it coming or was it a total hell raiser?No need to resort to violence though.It may be good to leave things hanging for a while until ye both try to figure out what happened.Maybe he thought your friendship was something special.Either way if he's a long time friend keep him.You may be laughing at this a year from now
2006-10-22 23:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by D8411 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Chris - thank you for sharing your subject. am i able to help you look at this from Ashley's attitude? "In her e book Relationships, former college professor Dr. Pamela Reeve discusses 3 ranges of friendships: pals, companions and intimate pals. Dr. Reeve observes that men and girls folk can't sustain an intimate friendship without one or the different harboring romantic expectancies. She recommends that men and girls folk dodge being intimate pals outdoors of courtship and marriage. companions, she says, many times spend decrease than 2 hours jointly a week. whilst a guy shows he could prefer to make certain the girl greater effective than that, yet claims they're "merely pals," he sends a blended message. Dr. Reeve writes: "One party can selfishly take excitement in all some great advantages of a dating, the warmth temperature and alleviation from loneliness, the delight of the attention that feeds the ego — all without the accompanying dedication. One party luxuriates, jointly as the different party feels cheated and is left with deep unhappy longings." i'm valuable you probably did no longer intend to break her thoughts, yet Ashley possibly feels cheated and perplexed with how lots time you have been spending time jointly. women folk are emotional beings. and due to those stable thoughts, we prefer you men to guard our hearts. Take particular care to have interplay with women folk in a fashion that would not play with their thoughts, deceive them or tear them down, and handbook them far flung from people who could. permit me motivate you to pass take care of the middle of your chum and (congratulations of your engagement!) - please you ought to additionally take care of the middle of your fiance. wish this facilitates!
2016-11-24 23:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by paula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you even going out in the first place?!
Why are both of your answers going to hurt his feelings or him?Tell him, if you wanna hurt him, you want to stay friends, and only friends.
2006-10-22 23:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by mojoe_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't slap him, he's probably just bored as well;-) There again, exactly what did he propose?
2006-10-22 23:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Rick Harley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man dnt freak out, tell him u dig him as a frend and u dnt wanna lose him so ud prefer to keep it the way it is. dnt be mean, dnt ditch him n dnt bring it up again wen uv told him no
2006-10-22 23:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Rusty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just tell him, either both of you be as usual friends. and if he still has the motive to propose you. then dont be friends be with him.
2006-10-22 23:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋