2006-10-22 21:28:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Hmm, interesting question. I'd say: be true to yourself, know yourself and accept your own talents and faults. Try to accept others faults and talents as well, but if you can't, remember: anyone else is an idiot. Hating them is taking them serious and thus wasting your precious time and braincells on something not worthwile. Spend them on things that you care about.
2006-10-22 21:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jaco K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are referring to a situation when someone hurts you by attacking you psychologically, emotionally or physically .Forgiveness is the answer, it frees you from the pain and takes the power away from what or who ever attacks you. Try this, the next time someone attacks you psychologically, physically, or however; after the attack wait a moment and then say, *I'll forgive your for that." watch what happens. This throws them off, because they expect defeat or a counter attack. You will be surprised at the reaction you get. Often when someone hurts you it has nothing to do with you, it is coming from something inside the attacker. Furthermore, when someone hurts someone, they in turn hurt someone else, so on and so on. Can you see how it has a rippling affect. It also works when you do something good for someone. We should all try to send out love to each other, It is a powerful force that grows with every selfless act of kindness.
However, if you are talking about hatred of something, or someone which does not target you for attack, you need to reexamine why you hate that person or thing. See if it is veritable.it usually won't be.
Hate is a very destructive force, usually it will destroy you more than the object of your hate. When you do the right moral thing, in any situation that arises, you will create a positive affect on yourself and those around you It is hard to imagine but everything you do, has a dynamic affect on everyone around you.
2006-10-22 22:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by galichealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hating takes more energy than any other emotion, and it generates negativity. Tather than hating some-one, try to find a few good points that they have and then decide to not put yourself in a position where you have to spend time with them. There are people I dislike, but I avoid them. I dont hate anybody. I look for people whose company is fun or inspirational, or from whom I can learn things. I like positive people, and there is no room to hate.
2006-10-22 21:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by maggie_at0303 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to feel, it's what you do with the feelings that matters. If you don't forgive people the anger turns to resentment. When you feel hate, try forgiveness and feeling love. If you put a lot of time and energy into hating someone, you give them power over you.
2006-10-22 21:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Speed Of Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You learn not to look at life through the eyes of the ego. Long hard road - but it works for me most of the time.
2006-10-22 22:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and hate go hand in hand. I believe that you cant truly feel one without feeling the other.
2006-10-22 21:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when u know how to love u can never hate
2006-10-22 21:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easily.
2006-10-22 21:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn to live and let live, agree to disagree. If strong prejudices were in my face i'd have a hard time with it though, like anti-americanism.
2006-10-22 21:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to know oneself first and put it in the place of the person.
2006-10-22 21:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋