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It really irritates me when people say you cant fall in love online... why the hell not? first of all the people answering these questions similar to mine posted on yahoo answers probably have not even been in love before , i could take•I could take the example of people who believe in God. You love God right, but you have never seen him. Someone can continuously question that…how can you love God without ever seeing him or how do you know he exists if you have never seen him? Of course I believe in God, and of course I’ve never seen him. The concept here is, just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. I have heard many stories of online meetings working out, and I am also sure a lot haven’t worked out, but is there anyone who can say that meeting face to face works out all the time? Sometimes is does, and sometimes it doesn’t. Love comes in all shapes and forms, it can be found anywhere when least expected.Share your thoughts with me please p.s.

2006-10-22 20:49:07 · 11 answers · asked by redstripedkandycane 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Love does not abide solely in the physical world, nor does it "choose" where it is found. Love simply exists long before it is found by the lovers.
Love is in itself and of itself unquestioning nor does it choose a meeting place. It simply IS. It is a partnering off of people at the heart and soul that cannot be undone even in a lifetime, even in all eternity.
It cannot be told "you will not survive here" nor "You will die if you live under this distance or that circumstance. It simply IS, wether people believe in it or not. And often, people will only believe once it happens to them.
You cannot go looking for love and find it - if you do, you are "lucky". Love IS already, and it will find you when the time is right, even if you think it's timing is wrong.
It will find you wherever you are, online, offline, shopping, sitting with friends.
I know love online is not only possible but can be more intense than "normal" love, because there is no need to pretend or hide - you can just be honest, and if you are, you fall in love deeply, with the real person, not the social mirage.
Yes, you can fall in love online. In fact, I am starting to find that people who fall in love online stay in love.. when its love. Infatuation happens everywhere, but love that is found online will prove itself real because it overcomes obstacles of distance, every day. And if you meet, super. Then you are able to take it to the next level. And it is more intense than anything you'll ever know, because you loved the person INSIDE first.
I met the man I love online. I will always love him, and I believe likewise he will never sever his heart from mine. Cynics will be found everywhere, and often they are the ones without experiencial backing to their assumptions.
Love is out there, and if you are ready to give 150% of yourself, it will find you, and reward you with 300% back.

2006-10-22 20:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 4 · 12 0

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2016-09-28 06:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Falling of love online, is always with some hidden intentions, may not be about sex, it can be for career, education, knowledge or bright future. It cannot be love in true sense. Love is an act without any hidden intentions and very clear heart to heart & soul to soul. If not it is not love either online or offline. It is mere attraction or craze.

2006-10-22 20:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

I think love is a feeling whcih doesnt have any boundations. it doesnt matter if it happens online. My best friend fell in love online with a guy .. and they cudnt have met cause they live in different countries. She is just too happy and i m happy for her too. And i think if she had this bias of not falling for anyone online.. she wud have never found her love......

2006-10-22 20:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by manshul2001 2 · 3 0

Yes, of course you can fall in love online. The trouble is, you are falling in love with a person you THINK you know, but it is not possible to truly know the whole person until you have met them face to face.

Have you ever heard of body language? When we meet someone, we get a lot of our information about that person from the way they use their face and their body. We also tell a lot about the person from their tone of voice and way of speaking. Online, you lose all that.

We are all hopeful when we get online. Without the verbal and visual clues, it's easy for us to interpret their words to say what WE want them to mean. Most people have had misunderstandings when using email, for exactly that reason.

So even if both parties are being honest and genuine, it's possible to get the wrong perception of someone. And if one of them is being DIShonest, then it's a piece of cake for him or her to deceive you.

So there are two reasons why people warn against falling in love online - because you CAN fall in love, very easily, and it can easily be with completely the wrong person. Either because you've misread/misunderstood who she is, or because she is lying to you.

Of course, if you are communicating via webcam, then you do get something closer to a face-to-face experience. However if the person is being dishonest, there are still ways she can manipulate what you see. And even with webcam, you can't visit the person's home or meet their family. If someone you met locally wouldn't invite you home once things started to get serious, you'd be suspicious that they might be married or have some other secret: online, you may not ask those questions.

Of course meeting face to face doesn't work out all the time, BUT YOU NEED TO DO BOTH. It's fine to fall in love on line, provided you don't make any decisions based on those feelings. Wait until you've met the person before making any commitments.

2006-10-22 21:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kylie 3 · 4 3

I think it is possible to fall in love online because you express yourself in words and its easier to write how you feel then to say it, when you share these feelings to the person your talking to online you start to feel something for them and they do too.your right about how some relationships work and some dont when they are face to face and when they are online. i totally agree with everything you said.

2006-10-22 20:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Dont get irritated but the thing is, I dont believe it either. Not because of anything else but that, falling in love is more than just exchanging notes and thoughts online. It takes so much more.....

But yes, we can dream on if we want.

2006-10-22 21:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0 3

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2016-02-06 14:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

falling in love online is possible...there's no such thing as not possible in this world,i do beleive in miracle.

2006-10-22 20:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by warmhearted 3 · 4 0

It works. I had done Internet dating for 5 years, then met my husband last yr. We are from different faiths, countries, etc., and love each other passionately.

2006-10-22 20:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2 1

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