I don't want to seem like a whore, because you'de have to sleep with someone else to achieve that accomplishment. I love my girlfriend, even though we don't have a very good relationship.
But she's the first and only firl i've been with since i've came out. She's adamant that we're going to be together forever. I want time to explore other options, how can I tell her that without breaking her heart? or do I not tell her? I don't know what to do, Help
2006-10-22 20:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by datcreekgurl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well if youve got feelings, any feelings for other people you shouldnt be in a relationship. You should have time to explore, if thats what you think you want... but to be honest, your gf apparently loves you - and regardless of how u put it, its going to break her heart.. if not the words, than your actions after the break up. Sorry, but theres no way around it... =/
2006-10-22 21:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on her. You obviously don't have the deep feelings for her than she has for you. You are going to break her heart eventually, if you are not willing to focus on the relationship you have with her. The best thing to do would be to try to put some effort in the current relationship. If you choose to call it off, know that she will lose her trust in you and you will probably never have the bond with her that you currently have. Also if the other girls you are interested in know that you dumped your other girlfriend to "explore other options." They would realize that a relationship with you wouldn't be forever, either.
If you have to call it off, let her down easy and be prepared to support her during her crisis.
2006-10-22 22:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by gc27858 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible to care about someone even though the relationship isn't what it should be.
The best thing you could do for yourself and for her is to be honest (in as nice a way as you can be). Don't string her along or underestimate her ability to deal with the disappointment. If you like a couple of other people obviously this friend you have isn't "the right one". Again, don't string things along.
2006-10-22 21:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is the price you pay to bring someone out of the closet....Now you think you are missing something...And if she is adamant that you are going to stay together...that says there is trouble in paradise....
2006-10-22 20:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are in a disfunctional relationship. Cut her lose. Get away from her. She will stalk you, no matter what, when you finally break it off.
2006-10-22 21:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u have to tell her ull feel better ... i dont think there is a way of tellin anyone without hurtin em... but not bein honest would hurt her more... she'll b hurt but she'll get over it... if she is ur first ull always have tha bound...
2006-10-22 20:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the journey to finding one's true self
is a journey that one goes on alone.
2006-10-22 23:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"tell the truth and the truth shall set you free,"
2006-10-23 01:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you are supposed to do is make up your mind what you want and do it.
2006-10-23 03:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's adamant? that's kind of scary....
run...don't walk...away
2006-10-23 00:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋