He is a very active swinger, but I am just curious , are you?
2006-10-22 20:43:53 · 18 answers · asked by MamasaidknockUout_1978 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're into swinging then its ok. But otherwise its a big no no.
You dont need to put up with his ****.
2006-10-22 23:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a personal and sometimes cultural answer depending on the environment one was raised , or if you were raised in japan you know your husband will cheat on you and that is okay if he does not disrespect you with it and bring it around your friends and family, and you do not question him about his whereabouts when he comes home, many women will say you are dumb and put you down, but they do not understand you or where you are coming from and honeslty I have more guy friends than girlfriends and have always been a tom boy type or one of the boys, except I am not some butch girl I have long hair and am feminine, anyways when I was married and after my divorce,I knew many couples professional attorneys,doctors, judges, blah blah,venture capitalists, devout christians foundation owners, catholics ,whatevers, I lived in suburbia and worked in the hospital and knew happily married for decades and not one of those husbands was faithful, for some reaon the guys all brought their hos around my house probably cause I was one of the guys, I was the one wife no one hid anything from but I wish they did, cause this really warped my view on men ,even my neighbors cheated on each other no matter where I lived, and worse were the hispanic catholic men I saw with wedding rings on in costa mesa at thr lions den, which is the total male gay bar
2006-10-23 03:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not all that matters. The point of marriage is so that you both take a vow, a promise, to FORSAKE all others for a lifetime and help eachother become better people. If he was going to continue to sleep with other women, why did you get married?
2006-10-23 03:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by princessstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can you spell naiive, missy? sounds like you are exactly the girl he wanted for a wife. to each his own, but there are men out here who really can both love and respect women. example: If I was a sculptor, and created a masterpiece, which all the world's sick, by casting eyes upon it, would become well, would I carelessly leave it neglected? If it or she was my own Love, I would treat it or her with the reverance she deserves, for you are the gift of a lifetime.
2006-10-23 04:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that isn't all that matters, Honesty is important but what matters is that you both have a two sided relationship, one in which you both feel loved, respected and appreciated.If you are able to be kool with his screwing around more power to you.
2006-10-23 03:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men would be scared if their wife knew of their infidelities, but you're one of a kind couple.
If I would know that my husband is screwing around, I would not want it to come from him. I think its kinda insensitive of him to tell you, like he expects you to just accept it?
I would advice you to stop asking. I would feel degraded myself if my husband tells me like its the most normal thing in the world.
2006-10-23 03:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what to say,just find power in yourself to make a change in your life in positive way,you are more worth to live with such a person or find your value.
2006-10-23 03:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by bibileady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, keep on going on like you do. Eventually you're going to feel different about it. Bless your heart.
2006-10-23 05:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever rocks your boat but in my marriage, swinging is a big no-no.
2006-10-23 03:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means just u Isnt Good Enough For Him
2006-10-23 03:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by The Messiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋