So the guy i really like who has now split with the girlfriend. Spoke to him for 1 1/2 friday night on phone and then another 1hour texting. He was drunk but i though true feelings come out when ur drunk, maybe not. He bought up the fact that i hate London and so how would it work? (does that mean he was thinkin about it)? He then said what would be your perfect world, your idal situation, and i was like you know that and he said well tell (making me tell him my feelings yet again), i said to be with him, so he said i shud come down london sunday night. He text me Saturday morning asking if i was mixed up or happy (obviously knowing full well he had sent mixed signals out yet again). We are meeting tonight after we had another argument yesterday. Hes now saying absolutely nothing will b happening tonight and he cannot give me any more than friendship. What shud i say2him tonight? If this was as easy as i like him and hes not interested surely we wouldnt keep arguing all the time
2006-10-22 20:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im an arguer at heart and if there isnt any arguing i would get bored, in fact the more i argue with some one deep down the more i care about them
2006-10-22 20:37:07 · update #1
thats the thing i have told him how i feel and he just keeps giving me mixed messages. him & his girlfiend split cuz he wants kids she doesnt. He even asked me on friday what was my view i.e did i want kids.
2006-10-22 23:01:18 · update #2
Tell him that you really like him, and when he is ready to give you what you wish for without any mixed signals, he should contact you to see if you are still available. Don't let him mess with you. Good luck!
2006-10-22 20:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not ready for any kind of relationship but just friends for now, you would be a rebound lady . And the fact that he was drunk when you talked on the phone tells me he is needing some alone time and/or just a good friend to chat with . You should never settle for second best ~ good luck
2006-10-22 20:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by LadyRazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him when he is drunk he will be talking rubbish and feeling sorry for himself wait till he is sober and then you can have a proper chat make sure you are 100% clear he wants to be with you before you travel to London or you will be wasting your time and good luck with it i hope it works out for ya
2006-10-22 20:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by oG33MANo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u like 12 years old or smth? cos no normal woman would even talk with a drunk person, not mentioning arguing with him and taking his words into consideration. it doesn't matter what will u tell him tonight, he already told u everything when he became sober
2006-10-22 21:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are arguing and you aren't even together, theres not much hope for a relationship. Play it cool and see if he is still interested, you are like putty in his hands at the moment and he will use you.
2006-10-22 20:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Frenchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with drinkers. Save yourself much grief in life. I'm a divorce attorney. The signs are so clear to me. He is absolute loser at the outset. It will only get worse for you if you get closer to him. Feel free to e-mail if you would like to chat.
2006-10-22 20:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by sochiswim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just ask him strate out if he is just messing with you or if he has feelings for you because he is playing amean game with your feelings when you get the answer you will no what to do next hope its the 1 you are looking 4
2006-10-22 22:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by cruise girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'r argueing already , get real , dont waste your trainfare !
2006-10-22 20:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋