i love him so so so so so so so so so much but i dont wanna be with him cause im cheatin on him with this other dude and i dont want him to get hurt.. i already broke up with him once then he accepted me back. and i dont wanna be with him cause he's tooo NICE! i need me a gangsta dude naasayin but anyway whats the best way to do this?
2006-10-22 20:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by Shyness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At first I wanted to answer this question in this manner: You don't love him. If you did, you wouldn't be hurting him.
But then, I can't judge your feelings for him by the 1 paragraph you wrote. So instead I'll tell you this; You sound young, by that I mean, under 20, not enough experience to want a long term relationship type. So, you want to explore. There's nothing wrong with that. You're not ready for the nice guy yet. You want to live on the edge a bit and are curious. Especially with the bad boys. There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. Maybe you were in love with him and fell out of love. You grew to care for him in the time that you two spent. With the love and care you have for him, leave because you also want what's best for him. Don't be selfish. He deserves to find someone who can give him the same love that he puts out.
In the words of Chris Brown:
"There's never a right time to say goodbye
But I gotta make the first move
'Cause if I don't you gonna start hating me
Cause I really don't feel the way I once felt about you
Girl it's not you, it's me
I gotta gotta figure out what I need
There's never a right time to say goodbye
But we know that we gotta go
Our separate ways
And I know it's hard but I gotta do it,
And it's killing me
Cause there's never a right time
Right time to say goodbye"
2006-10-22 20:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go because if you don't, you're being a selfish b**ch and a sl*t at that, too! If he is too nice, why the heck did you cheat on him? Stop calling or answering his call,'cause he doesn't deserve you anyway!
2006-10-23 03:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Acidburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really love him you would not be cheating on him. There's really no easy way but you'd better do it soon before he gets even more hurt. Why do we always go after the bad boys? Anyhow, good luck.
2006-10-23 03:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by melissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is ur emotion. emotion is good but it does not bring the well being for human life. u can just take ur time. then u can understand that what exactly u wanna do.
2006-10-23 03:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by akareem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him your cheating on him and that you no longer want to be with him. Honesty is the best solution!
2006-10-23 03:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you want break up with him. Say sorry and let go totally. Make sure you give a clean break and NOT break his heart again.
2006-10-23 03:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by j t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your a cheating hoe and not compatible. He will hopefully realize he's too good for you!
2006-10-23 03:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve him.. TELL HIM THE TRUTH..that you have been cheating on him and that you realize that he deserves better..
2006-10-23 03:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by MeInUSA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not ready for commitment.
2006-10-23 03:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you do it the first time? hook him up with someone he deserves.
2006-10-23 03:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by liza f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋