Have you ever felt that you are truly alone that you can't stand it?

Question

I'm asking about you.

Answer 1

Oh my god all the freakin time, i always feel that im lonely i dont have friends i dont have a boyfriend im just one lonely girl :( who stays in the house on myspace all day

Answer 2

Most definitely. I suffer from "chronic clinical depression with anxiety & subsequent panic disorder, resulting in agorophobia". How's that for a diagnosis? What makes the difference between being able to live with all the craziness rolling around in my head and eating my gun, is God. He came to me while I was at my worst, and gave me the strength to go on. My problem is caused by a chemical imbalance in my brain, so there is no cure. But with God's help, I am learning that those feelings of helplessness and aloneness are not my reality. I don't have to accept those feelings when they come. It isn't easy, and it is a daily battle, but now that I know I am not really alone, I can keep fighting.

Answer 3

I felt that way a few times in my life. I don't any more tho. The day that I accepted Jesus Christ as my Savior changed my lonely days into days that are full of joy.
Have you ever had that one thing in your life that brought you joy every time you were around it? Maybe a teddy bear or a little something from your grandparents or a mom or a dad, or it may very well be that person in your life. Well that is how I feel when I bow my head in prayer to my Savior. I can tell him anything, or ask him questions. Grant it I don't hear some booming voice come from the clouds in the sky answering me but I do feel His presence with me each and every day. You are probably reading this in disbelief but its true with every ounce of breath in my body. I have had no greater joy then the time I have spent with my Lord in prayer.

Answer 4

Back in high school. I was pretty shy. The worst sort of loneliness was when I was all alone in a big crowd of people. Sitting alone at a table in a crowded cafeteria, everyone around you is talking, engaged in conversation with someone else but you're just there, silent, trying to look occupied, trying not to let the loneliness show, but inside you're dying. The worst loneliness isn't when you're alone, but when you're silently drowning in a sea of humanity.

Fortunately, I've progressed since then. :-) Eventually you learn to overcome your shyness. To do that you need to become a better conversationalist, become more confident in yourself, and be less concerned with what others MIGHT be thinking of you. Oh yeah and if you have any self-pity, take that emotion behind the barn and put a bullet in it. Self-pity is one of the most dis-empowering things out there.

Answer 5

How can you be truly alone in this world? I can't get away from people. I would love to be truly alone for a couple of weeks. Then my mind might be able to sort out some of those questions I have been reserving for God.

Answer 6

Sometimes i feel that i am alone in my life, that nobody supports me , that i have to face all the things by my own! When i think about it i cannot stand it, i need someone to discuss, not really my parents, i would like a really good friend!

Answer 7

Until I started making myself happy that feeling of loneliness started dwindling away. I've almost captured the love for myself from a spiritual point of view. I first had to learn how to love myself before I could expect that from anyone else. To first truly love yourself means that you have to take time with your own self. That requires a self nurturing; I'm getting there.

Answer 8

I know I am alone. I can stand it because that's the way it is. There is nothing I can do about it. It is just a fact of life! What more can I say? What do you want to hear? That it is not true? I wish in truth I could say that this is not true but I have no evidence to prove that this statement is not true. Therefore, we need to love ourselves because we are all we have in reality!

Answer 9

Here in this section called philosophy, there ought to be hundreds of them who are lonely and that too by choice - their thinking acquires a special edge whenever they are alone - you and I may not be able to stand loneliness, but they thrive on it!

Answer 10

I sometimes feel this way. I work hard and live alone here in my apartment. My girlfriend is far away. I can't stand that because I wish she could be with me.