Am I right or wrong to be honest with my feelings for her. I don't like playing games and I don't think she does either. Suggestions please.
2006-10-22 19:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by drsauce99 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Take things slow. If you think she is having the same feelings,say something.You can wait till she says something or does something that shows she is feeling the same as you are. GOOD LUCk
2006-10-22 20:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by khris w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her that while you do have feelings for her, you would prefer to take things slowly to see how they pan out. Sometimes things will happen which will show the strength of both of your feelings.
I was just 16 when I met the guy I am now married to. I knew straight away it was the real thing and I didn't want to scare him away either. Just a few months into our relationship, he was involved in a serious accident and had to spend months in hospital going through countless operations.
We admitted our feelings straight away and have been together 19 years now, been married for 12 of those years and have 3 kiddies.
If it's meant to be between you and this girl, it will happen! Good luck.
2006-10-23 03:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Browneyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give a little, keep a little. I wear my heart on my sleeve and always end up getting beaten down. Know who you are, and never forget yourself. Never ever lose yourself for another person. If you don't love yourself first, then how is someone else gonna feel the same? I find when I hold and control myself not to overdo with the giving, you start receiving back. It's a two-way thing. Remember....it takes two hands to make a clap. Not one hand. Let this girl show you that she's into you too. Otherwise you'll always be taken for granted.
Good luck!
2006-10-23 03:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by debrakhoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
trust me - DONT be too honest! Girls like a challenge and, honesty is good, but at the early stage it can be interpretted as being to full on or heavy.
SO, don't go around tellin her you think she's lovely etc, make a joke out of it and tease her fondly
2006-10-23 03:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by fatboyslick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, If you are right for each other she won't care if your honest with her.But try and take your time and let things flow!!
2006-10-23 02:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rob S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry mate, i am the same - and if you handle it well then the lady will appriciate your honesty and refreshing security. they love the sensitive man occasionally
2006-10-23 03:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound nice, just be you and do be honest with her its right ,if she likes you, you will know.just treat her nice be kind and sensitive you wouldn't be asking if you didn't care.
2006-10-23 04:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Carol B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's that easily scared is she the One for you?
2006-10-23 06:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by los 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax...just be natural...trust me....
2006-10-23 03:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by Grazelle V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋