Have you been hurt so badly, it made you afraid, or has the fear shifted into anger? Do you ever find yourself lashing out at people, and avoiding people?...
My Twisted Reality....
2006-10-22 19:53:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes within time you will get over it
2006-10-22 19:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have been hurt so badly that I have a hard time with people. I will not be able to say what it is because in still hurt to this and is very scary to me now but well say that I can no longer trust men the same way as I use to. And The Only man that I do trust now is my husband. AND I can't go very far away with out him with me.
2006-10-23 03:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I lost a son at 5 months. I've never been the same since. Not long after we lost him, I had a baby girl. Now I'm terrified of her dying. I compulsively check her while she's sleeping and have nightmares about loosing her.
MY twisted reality.
2006-10-23 02:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by andi b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Ya When Your Hit By A car Like I was It is hard For Me To Cross streets I go Slower I take My time There Our times When I wait to cross until someone comes to the corner so I can cross with them That it is just some of things I go thought now after I was Hit By A car
2006-10-23 02:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that has happened to me, I was violated when i was 14 and the shock never totally wore off. I still can't have sex in certain positions and as much as i like to role-play, I can't play the no means yes game, It's still a little aggravating for me. One day we were role-playing in the missionary position and he put his hand over my mouth so I wouldn't wake the baby in the next room and I just flipped out I f**cking closed my eyes and screamed as loud as I could and pushed him off of me, I wouldn't let him touch me for a week. Crazy huh? That's my twisted reality!
2006-10-23 03:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive choose Avoidance
2006-10-23 02:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost both my parents, when, I was 26 and it pretty much changed my whole life. I was hurt for a long time and I really grieved for the first two years. But, I have concluded that I have my memories and that the hurt is always there, but, that it goes away a little everyday.
2006-10-23 03:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by lynnguys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advised is the best way to return the same state you were before the offense, is the forgiveness, When somebody hurt you badly soon you can give the forgiveness the soon you will return to the normal state. this is amazing no way get resent if to forget, nothing better when somebody hurt you, one things my master teach me and I proved it was go to the person whom hurt you and ask forgiveness this is like abnormal but it proved it work i did when somebody hurt me badly ask and ask him forgiveness.
The persons whom offend you he feel kind, i am the person should I ask forgiveness not you. you made the person to react.
why people get big resent is because they love each other
2006-10-23 03:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by The GOD Vision 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and then some . get this ! Ive been there ...then got hurt while I was hurting....then got hurt more after... until I was right back to my normal self !! its weird ! I went from isolation, to depression, to rage, to humility, to me again ....only Im much more poweful now and I can tell what kind of people are the bad kind now ;) I just have a small mental glitch every now and then , but Im fine :D
2006-10-23 02:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been hurt by a friend of mine, she did something to betray me and now i don't look at her the same, I'm not scared of her heck no but i mean, i don't trust her. i lash out on her sometimes saying its one thing but really its all just built up anger from that one time she betrayed me.
2006-10-23 02:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by Heat seeking missile 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was hurt in matters of the heart in this way once...but I am no longer afraid or angry. I lash out and avoid because of unrelated paranoia.
2006-10-23 02:55:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋