I wanna call him really bad?

Question

I am really intrested in this guy and he is intrested in me but we cant be together til jan.... I have this thing that I cant help but call him just to here his voice.... How do I stop being so stalkerish...or pushy... I dont want to push him away but I love talking to him

and we cant be together until jan because im switching schools then...

AND I FEEL LIKE IM BUGGING HIM

Answer 1

You shouldn't call him everyday. He would probably get really ignored with that and he would probably wouldn't be inerested in you anymore. You can call him like everyday, but don't call him every 1 or 2 hours. Talk to him on the phone again and you both agree to make like a schedule of the times you both can be on the phone daily. You can also talk to him and say if you are bugging him. You and him may have other schedules to do besides talking to eachother. You can also consider e-mailing him daily sometimes. Just don't call him everyday. If you are calling from a cell, you probably wasting minutes maybe. Have an AIM account and if he has one you can IM eachother on the computer instead of talking.

Answer 2

MY best friend in the WORLD has this problem constantly, with a different boy each week it seems. Especially if she and one of her boyfriends has a fight...she wants to dial every minute. What she does when she gets the urge is, she calls me. If I can't talk or don't pick up, she writes him a a letter and listens to music until she has another urge to call him...then she calls me again, even if she's just left a message or I really can't talk. Hey, it's the price I pay for having such an awesome best friend. It's what best friends are for--so if you have one, use him/her! Heehee I'm sure if you explain the situation they'll be more than happy to get you through those impulses to dial your guy.

Answer 3

Try putting a limit on yourself. Try writing down everything you want to say to him in a day and do this for a few days. Choose the best parts and send a sweet little love letter. It'll keep you busy and you won't be imposing that way. Just be sure to keep the letter of a reasonable length. Who knows, maybe he'll call before you finish.

Answer 4

So call him. Even though you can't be with him until January, you can still talk to him and get to know each other better.

Just don't call him a million times a day, that's a good way to get sick of a person.

Answer 5

resist the urge. make him call you. if you call too much you are going to look desparate and he won't be interested. so if you really like him and want to end up with him down the road you have to have self control. if you really must hear his voice then why don't you record a conversation then play it back whenever you want instead of calling so much.

Answer 6

What's with the waiting till january stuff?

Answer 7

call him...ask whether you're disturbing him...have a good long talk with him and don't call him in a week..if ull call him often,he'll feel like u're really annoying

Answer 8

why cant you be with him until jan.? just call him and talk to him. he will probably be happy to talk to you. i would

Answer 9

Don`t delay, call him immediately. For all you know that's exactly what he has on his mind too.Time does not wait for you, act swiftly.

Answer 10

i don't really understand your question but..just tell him how you feel. open up to him and he will fell that you are very close to him that you could tell him stuff like that.. but you should first tell him about it.. i hope this helps!