Having Psychological Problems?

Question

THAT IS, with my Non-existent Love Life

There's a guy at my church that I am interested in but have not talked with formally---(We'll call him J.R.)

Anyway another guy (We'll call him J.F.) and his family were announced by the pastor as distinguished visitors. J.F. is a freshman at a Distinguished College, and I happen to go to another Distinguished College across the street.

Anyway I introduced myself to J.F. just to be nice to say (hey I go to a neaby college), BUT His parents got so excited that they wanted me to take pictures with him ----So I once again obliged to be nice.

Anyway, J.R., (whom I have a crush on) happened to walk by and J.F.'s mother asked him to take our (me and J.F.'s) picture.

NOOOOOO!!!-----My crush took the picture of Just me and J.F. (it was like a couple's picture)

NOWWW!!!----J.R. probably thinks that me and and J.F. will be a possible couple---NOOOOO!!!! I'm NOT Taken!!! I'll look unavailable to J.R.

I was just trying to be nice and it stabbed me i

Answer 1

We cannot say that nice looking couple are nice couple.

If you have really interest on J.F. inform him your love and try to understand his emotional feelings on love and life partner.

If you can, be like that. But you cannot tell him to understand your emotional status.

Be openly.

Answer 2

lets look at the nice side of you . it works for you when you wish to please?
how about a new method here try telling people how you really feel about them , what the worst that can happen ?, been a door mat for the rest of world doest sound nice to me ,
if you like this guy alot try beaning honest and tell him , perhaps even your love life maybe become really good instead of just nice ,think about it ......

Answer 3

If u love/have a crush on JR, introduce urself to him....why do u hv to introduce urself to JF.