if i want to be best friends with a guy friend, what should i do? I mean how will i initiate to be closer to him? Should i call him everyday? Make sure we hang-out as much as we can? What efforts/moves should i take?
2006-10-22 19:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by deeper28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
diffrentiate is a very hard work.you can only find your best friend in the problems happening...but being closer to a friend is possible only by "treating kindly with him when he dont expect"...i mean when he expects us to be angry with him.
-a friend in need is a friend in deed-
2006-10-22 19:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by fromheaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are there for you ... no matter what. Through good times, as well as the bad. A best friend is someone you can share your inner-most thoughts with ... and trust that it won't go any further. If their heart is hurtin' ... so is yours. If they're crying tears of joy, you can't help but cry with them.
A best friend is someone who you can sit next to on the couch ... without saying a word, then get up and leave ... yet, feel like you've just have the best conversation ever.
If you understand all the things I've mentioned ... that's all you need, to make someone your best friend.
2006-10-23 02:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are something that you grow into. Hang out, make sure you have similer interests and views on the world before you jump into trying to be with the guy every day.
You don't just go to them and say "Okay, we're best friends now."
Best friends are people who have been through the worst and came out at least chuckling about it. It takes time to get there. And open-mindedness.
2006-10-23 02:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by firewater_tears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm assuming your a girl wanting to get on a deeper level with a guy, so.... First thing, it's awesome to always have someone there for you no matter what, but its important not to get to "clingy". Next, if this guy responds with equal intrest than he is expecting the same thing out of the relationship you are. Lastly, its important to be friends first then step your relationship up with a boyfriend or something more.
2006-10-23 02:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by YoungMoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, bestfrends hit it off from the gnats eye brow! it comes natural, no one can tell another how to become ones best friend, one will have to already have certain qualities and characteristics that the other person will feel and value as true friendship, one can spend hours of quality time with someone and buy them food etc, offer them their life, fight to the death to defend them, and if there`s no chemistry between them, no true valued friendship will take place. there has to be a connection, and that, usually begins with something they`ll have in common, How they relate to each other will set a bond.
2006-10-23 02:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend is one who helps us and stays with us even there are problems. but best friend tries to solve those problems even he is not with u. Friends may be many in number, but Best will be only one. So a friend who not only hears ur problems, but also solves them even if he is not with u is always
" T H E B E S T F R I E N D ".
2006-10-23 02:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by sricharan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I cant figure out a best friend among my friends, untill I meet her.(I dont know when)
The effort is: being who you are.(they told me so, and that s what I ve always been)
2006-10-23 02:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to socials, DO NOT CALL HIM EVERYDAY! lol that will draw you further. call him once a week, email him three times a week. tell him your secrets. things that you would normally tell your friends. Or you could tell him that you want to be his best friend. ask him if he wants to be closer Friends.
2006-10-23 02:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by crimson_tissues 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, ask your self right now do you really just want to be best friends. I think there something more than just being friends. Be honest with your self.
2006-10-23 02:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie_kanode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is flirting.
ur best friend shud b of ur sex.
so when d going gets tough, u have a fair, unbiased judge to help u figure tins out
2006-10-23 02:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋