if u were driving a car and u rearended someone because something behind u distracted u and one of ur friends was in the passenger seat and was hurt would u get mad at them (the friend that was hurt)?
i just want to know because this happend to me and i was the one hurt and my friend who was driving has told me he is mad at me and i dont really know y...........
2006-10-22 18:56:05 · 5 answers · asked by funny in a tragic way 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not suing him! im not even making him pay for the hospital bills!
2006-10-22 19:10:32 · update #1
Quite simply, he's mad at you because he feels guilty that his actions made you get hurt. He may not even realize it himself, but it's very easy to see it when you are standing on the outside looking in.
He was the one driving, he was the one who was supposed to be watching what was going on in front of him, he was the one distracted, and he was the one that hit someone else in the rear end. All of that is bad enough, but the fact that a friend got hurt in the bargain is probably just too much for him to deal with. So he displaces his anger onto you. If he's angry with you, he can go ahead and be mad, and work through the angry feelings in a way that seems safe to him. The problem, of course, is that since he isn't really facing his feelings, but rather displacing his anger, nothing really gets resolved.
Just give him some time to try and work through things, and hopefully he'll come around. But keep in mind that you didn't do anything wrong.
I hope you will be okay :)
2006-10-22 19:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why would he be mad at you. since he waz the driver he should of kept his eyes on the road. unless someone covered his eyes from the back seat he should of been watching where he was going. i wouldnt worry about it. it's not ur fault. hopefully everyone had on a sit belt. are you suing???? that could be it. if so i still wouldnt worry about it that's what his paying insurance it he go it.
2006-10-23 02:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by smooth sailing34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to find a new friend !
2006-10-23 01:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your freind is a jerk
2006-10-23 02:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by soon2b Mrs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe they were kidding.
2006-10-23 01:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by racerhot626 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋