i am married but to a man i can't stand but i love him don't make sence i know we fight all the time we never lived with eachother we have a baby that he has never done anything for i see myself with him but them with out i always push men away
2006-10-22 17:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by locababiegirlangelad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me ur manic depressive.. in which case untill u find happiness with urself u'll never be happy in any other aspect of your life, sounds to me u need to possibly go talk with a counseler or psychiatrist , and possibly get on some antidepressants and go to counseling to figure out why ur not happy with urself..
2006-10-22 17:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is forget men for now, focus on your self and your baby, as a matter of fact if you are looking for a true Innocent love, someone who will love you for who you are then, when your baby gives you a big fat hug, that baby is loving you for who you are and will (provided your a good mother) nothing else compares to it.
As for as romantic love, learn to love yourself, try going it alone, when you can feel good about that then , you might consider dating.Then you will have a relationship that is complete, with love respect and sharing. And someone you can get along with.
2006-10-22 17:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but get out while you can if youarent happy then more then likely he isnt either. You feel like you are always the one dumping the other person well maybe you just cant find someone you are compatible with yet
2006-10-22 17:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by justafriendlyperson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you're saying but the only answer I can give U is be honest with urself. What is going on inside U. Only U know. It could be sumthing abt ur past. Best of luck to you and I know you'll be fine. Be strong!
2006-10-22 17:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Juanita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you first need to remember why you started seeing him, and got married. You loved him once, and if he hasnt changed then your the one that you need to look at.
Its easy to get discouraged and to be nit picky. Your not perfect and im sure he isnt either. Two people trying to become one isnt easy, takes time, patients, love, hate, respect, and most of all God. Praying for you !!!!
2006-10-22 17:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Alwayz-Broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time away from him and see if you love him or not. There is no use being with someone you dont love or like
2006-10-22 17:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you need time to your self to really think this out and see what is in store for you as well the child to. if he is like that you i hate to say have no future together. this is my opion good luck ?
2006-10-22 17:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be happy in a relationship until you're happy with yourself.
You owe it to your child to fix this....get some counseling.
2006-10-22 17:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did the same thing you want somebody then you want your space. ask him to go do a guy thing like camping or something so you can breath and you won't feel as trapped.
2006-10-22 17:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by mia t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋