I know i'm 15 and that these things are natural. but is there any way to lower my lustful thought? I've gone out before and it seemed like I've liked a girl, then later on figure out it just physical attraction. I just want to be able to love someone without wondering if it's just sexual attraction clouding my judgment. so I was wondering if there was any way to lower this to a more controlled level.
2006-10-22 17:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by Ese 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Unfortunately there's no quick fix solution for feeling extremely horny. It's natures sick joke to play on teenage boys, and girls to a lesser extent. You feel as randy as a dog with two ***** all day, and 9 times out of 10 no where to 'off load' your frustrations. My advice to you is get yourself an equally horny girlfriend and have some fantastic sex at every available opportunity. Failing that, wa*k yourself silly everyday until your bell-end's hurts.
2006-10-26 08:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bont11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a fifteen year old girl once, and I was just as lustful as you! Everyone is like that and I think that's why they call first loves "puppy love" because it's silly romantic (sexual) love rather than that plus the real thing.
Don't worry about it, enjoy your lustful thoughts. And if you really want to know if you like a girl, pull a Something About Mary, and yank off before a date.
Then you may be able to talk to her and get to know her for some period of time before those crazy hormones take over again.
2006-10-23 00:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are "15" your hormones are running rampant...come on now ask anyone of your friends if they are healthy 15 yr olds they are thinking the same as you. Don't feel so guilty chances are it can turn into love but believe me I had a relationship at that same age it started out flirty than sexual then love...but at that age it didn't last it broke my heart he even still kept in touch sometimes after I was married.....I heard he never married oh well enjoy this time in your life. You are definitely just having healthy and normal thoughts at your age...enjoy this because you will be old someday and look back on these years and have some nice memories and maybe even have a good laugh!....otherwise get into a sport and get a job....that will certainly take some of your lusty thoughts away because you will be too tired ...lol
2006-10-23 00:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by bowl_me_over_with_love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are probably just a normal teenage boy !
Your Hormones are Running Amuck!!
Did you see Theres Something About Mary?
They discuss " cleaning their pipes " before a date.
That would probably help you be able to look at a girl and get to know her without quite so much lust in your mind.
Good Luck
PS This too shall pass.
2006-10-23 00:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just imagine being with them as a person and put the idea of sex out of your mind, that way talking to them, being with them and your friendship becomes an end in itself.
2006-10-23 01:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea try gurls ur not interested in and see if u come to love the gurl i tried it i was interested in boys who werent smart they were dumb and ni eve now i like boys who r older and mature
2006-10-23 00:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by saphira 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋