Well..I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost 5 years now and we have never had a problem until recently. I met another guy through work, and we really hit it off. The thing is that this guy is a bad-boy type of guy and that I love it! I really do not look for any kind of relationship with this new guy, but probably something temporary. What am I supposed to do here?
2006-10-22 17:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
holy cow. how come women always go for the bad guys...read this question....
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnsM8Mrdkaij7I56kbX9pKzsy6IX?qid=20061022204514AA24o4w
you're with a guy for 5 years, but want to risk it for a fling?? wow! do you know what love really is?
2006-10-22 17:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Blazzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you not just throw all the rules out the window and have you fling, gosh it is only a 5 yr relationship down the toilet, and you bad boy may last past the first bedding. You partner deserves more respect than you are capable of showing
2006-10-23 00:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're really ready to blow off 5 good years with your BF for a few quickies with another guy because of a recent problem instead of trying to work through it? You need to look in the mirror.....
2006-10-23 00:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by STEVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are treading on a very dangerous water here. You want to have the pleasure of both worlds, you will fail, that's not acceptable behavior especially for a woman. You will end up having nothing and the moral repercussions will definitely hurt you for a long long long time.
2006-10-23 01:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by nards pogi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say if you love the boyfriend, you definetly should stay away from the"bad" boy. If you aren't sure the boyfriend is the one, you atleast owe him the respect of telling him your feelings and maybe try seeing other people as well and see how that goes...how old are you two?
2006-10-23 00:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by babiedoll6972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you want to cheat on your long term relationship. That ain't right but you have already made your mind up so go fo it. But if you're going to do this thing, go whole hog and get all you can. 1 time or 100, it's all cheating. I'm glad you ain't my girl.
2006-10-23 00:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by James C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie a 100 lb. iron weight to your neck and jump in the river. If you sink then don't cheat on your boy friend. If you float then you can do whatever you want.
2006-10-23 00:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If it leads you to the new guy then so be it. But it would be wrong to stay with the old guy and lead him on if you fall in love with the new guy.
2006-10-23 00:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE BEEN WITH YOUR BOYFIEND FOR FIVE YEARS.
THEN YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HM AND LET HIM
KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT HAPPY. BECAUSE IF YOU
ARE THING ABOUT GET WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU
JUST MET FOR A TEMPORARY FLING. THEN MAY YOU
NEED TO LET HIM GO. BECAUSE IF YOU CAN THROW AWAY
THIS FOR A TEMPORAY THING . YOU DESERVE WHAT EVER
COME YOUR WAY. SORRY TO SAY.
2006-10-23 00:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you boyfriend he is a old friend from high school. And hag out with him anyway.
2006-10-23 00:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋