Or do you think there are many??? Like if you marry a wonderful guy are you gonna always think you could have done better???
2006-10-22 16:46:00 · 7 answers · asked by Vicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Like, maybe an extra-wonderful guy?
2006-10-22 16:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by asperens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are billions of people in this world so I definitely believe there is more than one right guy for each woman and vice versa. Problem is these guys may be spread all over the world in places you would never have visited in your life time. Even if you do meet them, they may be married or both of you are so old that you don't care any more. The key point is can you meet the right person at the right time? I think there is a song by the Osmonds (not sure if it is by them) that says there is a boy living on one side of the hill and there is a girl living on the other side. If they could have met then they would be perfect for each other. Can they? If you are able to marry a wonderful guy then you are extremely lucky already, don't try to think of other possibilities.
2006-10-23 00:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sea_turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we beleive there right for us at the time, but old love changes. Things change in a relationship and attitudes change. Northing stays the same!!! Be prepared, im not kidding. Ive been married 15 years and love my husband but things are different. I feel fortunate in the fact that i didnt marry beneath myself and i dont worry about that. I would have never married someone that couldnt take care of me and my family if need be.
2006-10-22 23:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by *COCO* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to totally believe there was just one guy in the world for me. I married him......and he was nothing like I thought he would be. I had expectations that never came true. His fault or mine? a bit of both.
I have had the privledged to have other men I have fallin love with.
Those of us who have loved and lost know that there will be someone out there for us eventually.
I think the reason for so many divorices is that
couples make decisions on hyped up romantic fairytale romance. I am not against it...It needed to be mixed with wisdom and knowing each other and the ability to deal with the ups and downs of life.
2006-10-23 00:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's more than finding the right person...
it also involves finding the right person who is in the same place in his life that you are when you find him.
2006-10-22 23:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can only answer to say yes there is one that is right for you --- and a few that are NEARLY right for you
those thoughts will come up as long as you dont act on them they are harmless and natural
2006-10-22 23:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sure hope that there's a perfect guy out there for me...he just seems to be in hiding right now...but i can't wait to meet him!
2006-10-22 23:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋