Since no one in the Singles and Dating section won't answer this...ok. Are BF x GF relationships worth it?

Question

Wait. Since some people don't know what to do, I'm gonna say this first. To know my question well, you gotta click on the damn link. BF=boyfriend and GF=girlfriend. There wasn't enough space. Click on the damn link. It's not a virus dammit, it even goes to photobucket. You gotta click on the link. That's why I put it there.
I put it there for a reason. It's not porn, it's a picture of a blog post. That's why the question is weird without looking at the link.

Now, read the stuff at the bottom.
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don't know why they won't...it's either they don't care, they're afraid it's a virus (no it's not. trust me. please?), or they don't know what to say.

ah well, I get more nice answers in this section anyway, whether if it's revoking it or agreeing with it.

Teenage relationships people, TEENAGE. The one where most people aren't ready for building their own families yet.

feedback, since I almost always get rebuked.

Answer 1

what was your question once again? omg! you sound like my friend when i asked her about what's the point of going into relationships if they aren't gonna last anyway. you always have to have the end in mind i suppose. i really can't figure out that teenage relationship thing. you argued it well on your blogpost. the one thing that i don't agree with you is the part where love doesnt exist at all. that's so not true. it exists and you just have to find the right person. man that's the problem with today's society. they go into relationships because you get viewed as a diseased individual if you are single which should not be the case. it's all so twisted. good thing im not in that **** and never have been. i guess patience does pay off.

Answer 2

I'll bite. OK, Stop listening to the hype about relationships with the opposite sex. They arent "supposed to be" anything other than what they end up to be, like any other relationship. Some friends come into your life for a long time, some for a short time. Thats all they needed to be and thats all any relationship as BF or GF ever needs to be. Every person that comes into your life, for however long, has something to offer you and you them. Make sure you discover what that is and dont throw it away by begrudging the break up. Dont expect to be with your next girlfreind forever, stop that. Just enjoy the time you have with each person. Yes breaking up hurts, but dont take it personally, its only withdrawal. And who says hurting is bad, just because it doesnt feel good doesnt mean there isnt something in there for you. Eventually you will be in a beautiful relationship and it will end after a few years and you will love that person when you part, just in a different way. Good luck, and smile.

Answer 3

food for thought. i once read that each of us will have 3 major loves in our lives. the first being about the time we notice the opposite sex or not long after. i'd say thats between middle and high school.
the 2nd being around college age as this is when you first leave home [on the norm] and for the first time have boundrys by the parental figure. this is a great time but as in our first love, its new all over again.
the 3rd is later on when we become secure in or career and look for the same in a mate. is there a hope to marry our high school sweety? well maybe if you bump into them years after the fact.
so, is it practice? id say yes, but you will never know it at the time. i envy 100 or 200 years ago when the social changes in life didnt very as it does today. you might fall for your neibor at age 11 and did live happly ever after. slim chance of that today, but it can happen so we always go into a relation thinking it will be us forever. erveryone likes the new fuzzies. dont you?

Answer 4

Teenage bf-gf relationships as they have been defined in the last fifty-odd years are terrifying, angst-ridden, destructive-to-both-parties situations that almost no sane individual would care to relive. That said, nobody will ever convince said teens of this untill they have lived through it, probably several times, and/or achieved some reasonable degree of emotional maturity. And how they are to achieve that goal with the life-lessons they learn from the bf-gf relationships is beyond comprehension. Good question. Way too cerebral for the dating game category.

Answer 5

I agree with most of what you say, but I would contend that the "training" aspect of teenage relationships is vital. You need to have "experience" as a teen in order to get by later on, if only because everyone else does. Face it, a person in their twenties or thirties who has never dated is looked upon as freakish, and sometimes doesn't know how to begin.

No, that may not be the motive behind the teenage relationship when it was started, but it's valuable nonetheless.

Answer 6

the internet and web content like Yahoo!solutions are used as a guard by technique of youngsters who don't have many acquaintances and who do not communicate over with / believe their moms and dads very a lot, and who're regularly exceptionally insecure, subsequently the damp settee and fee me variety of questions. i'm no longer declaring it is an outstanding element, yet i'm no longer declaring we'd want to continually condemn them or deliver them to a "junk" filter out both... because we've all been 13, with larger or decrease stages of adulthood, yet nevertheless. :)

Answer 7

You seem to have covered all answers in your blog post, so what exactly are you expecting?

Answer 8

Too small of print. But yes, they are worht it! Like love, they are different every time.