No details necessary. Just a question to enlighten my mind and help me to walk away.
2006-10-22 16:27:55 · 16 answers · asked by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I think you need to be there during good and bad times, be supportive and show love by doing and not just saying it, with no actions to back it up. But, I don't think any human being is put on this earth to be treated like crap, especially by someone that is supposed to love them. Love and relationships take a lot of work and if one person isn't willing to do any work but is always stressing the situation, I'd get out today. I have always believed that it takes two to make it but it only takes one to break it. If both people gave more than they took they would have it made.If you've taken crap over and over again, you are teaching the other person how to treat you. Like Dr. Phil says, we teach other people how to treat us and if we allow it then they will do it, sadly enough. If you don't want to spend the rest of your life in this frame of mind, always in turmoil then get out. There are a lot of good women out there that would love to have a good man. Good luck to you .
2006-10-22 16:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have anything to "prove". Thats being insecure. If you were in a relationship where the two of you loved eachother, than you both know that the feeling is mutual. Neither of you should have anything to prove. Regardless of how much a couple fights, argues, or disagrees, you are always aware that you love eachother. Hate is an unelastic, shortwinded emotion (usually). Love is an emotion that lasts forever, an emotion that scars as well as heals.
How far should you have to go? Take the pressure off of her. If you love her and she loves you, there is nothign left to prove.
2006-10-22 17:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Spectre 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to go to any super human lengths to prove your love. She should love you for who you are. Just being there for that person, and loving them and trusting them. Love and trust come with time. I know the old super hero thing may seem romantic, but when it comes down to it, a long and loving relationship is just about everyday things.
2006-10-22 16:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by Starscape 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's a competent question and honestly i do no longer know a thank you to respond to yet for my candy heart i could do something. I see that he extremely loves me and could pass out his way for me so i could prefer to maximum defiantly pay off him lower back by way of being the excellent woman chum i ought to be. It would not even rely approximately cloth issues via fact all that should come later. i could stay unswerving and actual to him. I honestly have by no skill or will by no skill cheat lie or deceit him. he's my each concern; my life so i commit each concern and my life to him. "The lengths i could pass to tutor my love?" there are no lengths whilst it is composed of him. i could almost take a bullet for my toddler merely via fact he could do it for me.
2016-11-24 23:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her in a way that makes you feel comfortable. If you feel like your putting too much effort into trying to prove it and she still doesnt believe you, then maybe she's not worth your time and she's playing games with you.
2006-10-22 18:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose any length short of being made a chump. Sometimes you have to draw the line and realize that it is possible they have become more trouble than they are worth.
2006-10-22 17:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman really loves a man she won't ask him to prove it.
2006-10-22 16:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man really loves a woman if he is willing to burn all of her posetions before the cops arrest him
2006-10-22 17:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Tim w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as far as you feel you can go and maybe a bit further. love is about making sacrifices, at times you'll have to do things that go against your will...thats just love, but just as well, dont let the lady take advantage of that love.
2006-10-22 16:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by firefly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No m ore than the limits that your own personal integrity allows. Any violation of that is too much proof.
2006-10-22 17:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋