It really hard to keep 'em to stay. I don't know if this is my problem.
I have divorced 5 years ago, after being together for 11 years. After, I have another girlfriend who last for 2 years then we broke up. Then another girlfriend who last for 1.5 years, and we broke up again.
And now, I've been single for more than a year. There's so many girl around me, but I feel afraid to make any move because I'm sick of changing partner. I really loved all my exes, but I feel failed to make them happy.
Now, I keep some distance to any girl that seems interested in me, I just keep them as friends, even they keep flirting with me. It makes me feel so lonely.
I feel more like, I just don't want to hurt another girl anymore, than trying not to hurt my self. I can handle my pain but I can't stand anymore girl tears. All my exes get very emotional after a while with me. What should I do? I still a normal guy, and I need to love.
2006-10-22 16:10:39 · 5 answers · asked by waterpure2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HaHa! Sounds like you and me are riding the same ride. I have been divorced for 9 years now, and my longest relationship since then lasted only 6 months. Two lasted only 3 months, 1 lasted 2 months, and 3 only lasted under 2 months. I stopped dating completely for 3 1/2 years because I got tired of all of it. Then I finally started to date again, and it is starting all over again. It really does suck.
All I can tell you is what I keep telling myself, don't stop trying. The right one will eventually come along, it is just the getting there part that is very frustrating. Good luck to you and me both!
2006-10-22 16:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the best relationships begin as friends. Instead of looking for the next "Mrs.", try looking for a friend instead, then allowing it to develop from there. I am sure you will have no problems getting them to stay when you show them that you can be a good friend to begin with. Then, put the fear behind you. It may be one reason you can't find someone who will commit to you.
2006-10-22 23:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by pupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you took a look into your past? What were you doing that could have possibly hurt these women? We are supposed to learn from our experiences when dating others....this is the time when you should take your experiences and pull a lesson out of them.
2006-10-22 23:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now what did u do to make them break up...joking...sometimes showing your love...not just saying it...showing is soooo important at least to me..sometimes i feel like man if this person loves me he would be doing this for me..maybe i am self centered but..guys sometimes forget that..i think no wonder im still single lol but anyone can say i love you but doing little things are a biggy!! shoot..just calling her and saying u love her..is simple
2006-10-22 23:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mistake i did was not openly talking to my partner. I think you should try to understand your partner and make her understand abot you.
2006-10-22 23:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋