I was very close to my mother and her passing hit me very hard. I don't know if I will ever get over it.
2006-10-22 16:08:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry honey. Its very tragic, I've seen it. I cant imagine my Mom dying, I would be completely devastated also since shes my heart and soul. My only answer to you is what my mother says:
She can never get over her mother's death, she says shes just cried and mourned and suffered so much its like shes numb. They only thing you can do is ask for hope and light from God. Seek the meaning and happiness in your life; and hope your mother is in a better place. You'll meet again someday, and hopefully you'll both be together, in a better place.
2006-10-22 16:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by theflame_inside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,I am very sorry to hear the sad news.Second,did she have a hard life?Third,she is now in a better place,and can not be in any kind of pain ever again.You have to let her go,and let the tears pass in your own time.I lost my grandmother in 2001 just 15 days after her 82nd birthday.She had a large part in my being raised,and was a big part of my life.I miss her everyday,but am consoled by the fact that I try to do what I know would of made her happy,by doing the right thing always.You know honesty,hard work and treating people with great respect as I would have treated her.I will keep you in my prayers to be consoled,and regain happiness for the rest of your life.
2006-10-22 16:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will get over it sweetie but time will ease the pain if you allow yourself to go through the process of grieving. This is your MOM we're talking about here. Of course you are going to miss her every day. 2 months is a short time and so her passing is a fresh wound. Pray and ask God for strength. He will strengthen you and help you get through this most difficult time. Lean on your friends and other family members. Join a church group. You will make it. Not saying it won't be hard. But you will make it!
God bless you!
2006-10-22 16:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the best healer. You will slowly get over the shock of loosing your mother. I am pained to know you have lost someone very dear. Develop some interests and do the things your Mom would have liked you to do in that way you can keep her memory alive as well as do good
2006-10-22 16:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss! The sorrow that you are feeling is normal and you will always feel sad for the loss of your mother, but it will ease as time passes, I promise. If you are having a very hard time dealing with it, call your local church and ask if they can help you find a support group. It does help to talk about it with others who are sharing your pain. If you are spiritual you can pray, talk to your preist. If you feel you aren't ready to talk about it with others, there are some very good, healing books at barnes and noble about loss and grieving. Good luck to you!
2006-10-22 16:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by luvbabysky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "get over" the loss of a loved one. You learn to live with the empty space in your life. The sadness doesn't go away, you eventually learn to cope with it. Eventually, everyday life preoccupies you and you wait for the quiet moments to miss that person. Cherished memories sneak in there to take their place alongside the sad ones. You realize that your loved one lives on in the lives of the people they touched. Their physical presence is missing but their essence is all around you. Good luck to you nad may you find the peace you seek as you travel down a difficult road.
2006-10-22 16:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jay Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone grieves differently and for you to be feeling the way you do after 2 months I think is perfectly normal. She was your Mom after all, thats not something that just goes away. You may want to consider finding a support group in your area, that may help you deal with your grief. I wish you the best.
2006-10-22 16:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by rainydayislandgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for your loss.
My mother past 3 years ago and what helped me was I thought of all the happy times we shared. And, have plenty of friends and family to help you thru it. If you need to talk you can email me I'll give you a soft should to cry on.
2006-10-22 16:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. I felt the same way when my dad passed away. It's normal. If you are religious you can pray. SOmetimes it helps to imagine her there and just talk about the things that you didnt have the chance to tell her. Eventually you will learn to move forward. The more you talk about your pain the better you will feel.
2006-10-22 16:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by simplyjaxxs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi sweetie. you know, death is a part of life. i wont say that you're ever gonna get over it cos i dont think anyone can. when someone you love dies, that person takes away a part of you and you probably feel rather empty and lost. but just remember death takes away life but not connections, memories and most of all love. just know that she's always with you and she doesnt want to see you sad because all her life, everything she did, was for you to have a better life. so lead a great life, continue loving her and always know that she loves you too. :)
2006-10-22 16:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by throughmyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋