was it for love lust or just to say you are married and why
2006-10-22 16:08:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I probably won't get married...it's not my thing. For some people, it's great (obviously, as so many people have done it). But I just don't need that piece of paper to define my life. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, and have a son and a daughter on the way, and don't feel the need to get married. Maybe that'll change one day though.
2006-10-22 16:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way when I married my husband I did not what anything to come between me and him. Unfortunately that happened and if I had to chance to marry I wouldnt. I was much younger then him and my ideals on what marriage was were not what happened. Lust does play a part but if all your ducks are not lined in a row to some extent what I mean by that if you both do not have a clear and solid goal to reach life does have a funny way of throwing you a curve ball and that is cause nothing was set up when you went into it.
2006-10-22 16:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once engaged while I was once 24 and married while I was once 26 Our marriage ceremony colours had been a faded peach and chocolate brown We each and every had our brothers as witnesses (two complete), it was once an excessively small marriage ceremony (14 folks had been there adding us and our reverend) Our reception was once held a month after our marriage ceremony, and we didn't have assigned seating, such a lot folks did not sit down, it was once a cocktail celebration We had a small chocolate cake after which a type of cakes for folks to select, I believe there have been five distinctive offerings We went to Maui for 2 weeks We bought married in Gleneden Beach, OR, a tiny the city at the coast, simply external of Lincoln City
2016-09-01 01:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by bachinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my husband because I love him deeply and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. When I first met him, I wanted to be more than friends but he insisted on becoming friends first to see how compatible we were. 6 months after meeting him, we began dating. He never tried to rush things, he never did anything that I didn't agree to, and he was always there when I needed him but kept his distance when I needed space. The main thing that showed me how great our love and relationship was, was when he got deployed to Iraq for a year after we had only been dating for 10 months. He started out at a base 4 hours away from me and was there for 3 months prior to going overseas. I spent my whole paycheck and most of my savings going to visit him every weekend he could have visitors before he went overseas. When he returned from his deployment a year later, our love was still going strong, and we married 2 months after. He is currently deployed again to Iraq, this time for 18 months, and I still continue to love him with all of my heart and soul. We don't have any kids yet (I was 2 months pregnant a few weeks ago, but, sadly, had a miscarriage), but we do plan on trying when he gets home in October of next year.
2006-10-22 16:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Vet_Techie_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married two times. Both times on the exact same day of the year. Didn't plan it that way, it just happened. However, it makes remembering my anniversary very easy! I was in love and expecting a child. That was 20 years ago.
2006-10-22 16:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married the man my heart belongs to i cant say hes everything i ever dreamed of and thats a good thing i would get bored we have are ups and are downs but the downs make the ups that much better and he is a wonderful father and i would never leave him only because no one could be as good as he is to my daughter when its love youll know and you wont ask any quiestions or have any second thoughts and in the hard times you will no there will soon be sunshine
2006-10-22 16:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by ashley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my boyfriend/fiance of 1 year on August 19th of this year simply because I'm madly in love with him. We got engaged 6 weeks after we met in June of 05'. It seems a little crazy but he's a male version of myself and I had never really connected with anyone else. We knew each other 2 weeks and had already figured out how the other ticked.
2006-10-22 16:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband I looked at him and knew he was my one and only. Good thing he felt the same way lol. We have been together everyday since. I married him because he is my best friend and my lover he's my companion and my soul mate. He makes me happy and feel loved and secure. Oh yeah and hes GREAT in bed!
2006-10-22 16:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We married because we wanted to spend the rest of our days together. Together we feel ANYTHING is possible, no matter how broke we are now, we know we will make millions/billions by working together and creating a harmonious home. Communication is key!!
2006-10-22 16:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't set out to marry him. He grew on me. I chose him to father my child. After two kids, a mortgage, retirement plans, the whole monogamy agreement, shared everything.... I just figured I was already in it up to my neck anyway. It was important to him, and I do love him, and our home life is ideal. I guess I got over my fear of commitment. I don't regret it.
2006-10-22 16:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋