is unattrative and u wouldn't like it.. please don't be perverted and just saying yes because u want to see boobs but one is a b and the other one is almost a d.. the guys on here...do u think they are gross and u wouldnt' like them ..and would u rather have even boobs. i know i am younge and i don't plan on showing off my body to guys or anything but i mean "if" u saw me without a bra on
2006-10-22 16:05:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
the girl at the bottom...debs her name is....i swear to god on my life. i'm not joking and that just hurt ever more saying that. thanks. but u guys please believe me i'm not kidding
2006-10-22 16:22:24 · update #1
Sweety,
that happened to me and no it's not funny, but wait until you are a little older. I waited and I hope that you really think about what you want to do. I had surgery to reduce the big breast(it was big because I had cysts) and they had to fix both breasts so they would look alike, but guess what, I have cried for the past 5 years because no one knows how your body is going to react to surgery and after the surgery I know have awful keloid scars all over my chest and I don't have any sensation and all of this to please my boyfriend who by the way is no longer my boyfriend. With age, sweety you will understand what matters in life. A man who loves you will love you even if you are missing one or two breasts. Smile and be happy for now. Those who ridicule you don't love you. Take this from someone who has been there. I wish all I had was a boob bigger than the other one. Read about the scars that breast reductions leave. If at all get a breast augmentation and get the smaller one as big as the bigger one. That would be better. Take care.
2006-10-22 16:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know cup sizes that well, but if they were very different I would be kinda freaked out. I think you should ask a doctor about it. They might even out too! I mean, a little asymmetry is to be expected. But if they are very different, then they would be a little weird. There are so many ways to fix that though, if it's even a problem. A doctor could definitely help you out, if only to explain why they are not growing at the same rate. I would not worry about it if I were you, but I would definitely see a doctor about it shortly. Good night!
Edit: Oh, yeah. Reading over my writing, I don't think I was too clear in answering your question. It's hard for me to tell how big of a difference you're talking about, but I think it is probably not desirable. A small difference is perfectly OK. A big, obvious difference would be harder to get along with. I think I could probably get used to a major difference if I really liked you, but it would be difficult. Anyway, hopefully they will even out on their own. And hopefully it is not a sign of disease or anything. Good night!
2006-10-22 16:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my username shows I'm female :), but I still feel qualified...
It isn't necissarilly "gross", but if the difference is as great as you say, perhaps you should get it checked out by a doctor, as there could be something medically wrong (*really* wacked out harmones, some sort of malignancy...)
More likely, it is just one cupsize or less. You're a teen (and judging by utilization of online slang, a young one), your body is maturing and growing, and unevenness is somewhat common during development. Also, it could just be that that is how your body is made. My aunt is in her 50's and is still uneven. Until you know if anything/what is wrong, try buying a bra to suit the larger and padding the other side so that it isn't noticable (toilet tissue, not paper towels. They scratch).
2006-10-22 16:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by theladycarmilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my oldest daughter went through the same thing...poor kid...one was an a, the other a d!!! she was so embarassed. the doctor told her they would eventually even out. by the time she was 18 or 19, the smaller one finally caught up! the one is still slightly smaller, but no big deal....most women have slightly different sized breasts...hang in there kid...they'll even out!
i don't know why deb is saying you are lying...i guess she's calling me a liar too. my daughter had one huge breast and the other nearly flat....she had no medical problems...just hormones trying to get on track.
2006-10-22 16:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a youngster and i am getting self consious approximately mine too for the reason that they're handiest an A cup. But i do know lotts of women with distinctive dimension boobs. Im certain that you're particularly the one one that notices besides so dont fear approximately it.
2016-09-01 01:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by bachinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not being perverted or anything, but i'd have to see to believe. you're more than likely just going through a growth spurt and it may end up correcting itself soon. dont worry about what guys think. as you said, you're young. you shouldnt have to worry about things like this.
2006-10-22 16:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by xbxbuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female... and listening to you say you have a B cup and a D cup... is bullsh_it! NO you dont.... and you guys are suckers for falling for it!
IF you had that big of a difference (and thats a huge difference, mind you) your parents would have taken you to a doctor by now.. and the doctors would have fixed/ or opted to do something about it already.
I think your full of crap!
2006-10-22 16:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by debs 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
if there's nothing medically wrong with your breasts, you don't need to worry about their different sizes. you are more than the sizes of your breasts. some guys may make fun of you but most guys are decent. you'll be okay. cheers!
2006-10-22 16:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other one should catch up but if it doesnt, get the big one reduced, but wait untill ur at least 18, see a doctor too. but to answer ur question, i would think it is physically unattractive...
2006-10-22 16:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love it. It's like being with a different woman every night.
2006-10-22 16:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋