OK my husband grips because i don't give bljb as much as i did when we just got together.what do u think??? i don't think it's a big deal he doesnt do his diddy so what does it matter????does it break or make a marriage ????
2006-10-22 15:56:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i understand but my goodness i would be giving head 24/7
2006-10-22 16:10:46 · update #1
Men and their b.j.. today that is all they want nothing else satisfy me in this way and I will leave you alone..so where does the female come in all they need is a mouth..I think that their are so many men today that would rather be gay and get their b.j. and gone on with their lives I think hubby is spoiled and I am sure he loves you but don't let him make you do something you don't want and what about your needs you need to tell him this good luck friend sureill
2006-10-22 16:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well to be honest a wife and husband should be interested in pleasing each other in every possible way. If one deviates for any reason from the norm it may be suspect that there is a loss of interest in the bedroom, but not necessarily in the marriage. But beware darling if you don't do it and it's something he enjoys I would be concerned that he might find someone on the side that is willing to oblige him. Marriage is a compromise and it takes constant work. If there is any personal reason other than you just don't feel like it I would share it with my spouse. Sex is great in a marriage but it isn't the only intimacy couples share.
2006-10-22 23:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't about the marriage, it is about the evolution of your sex life. Obviously, it is important to him, or he would not have mentioned it at all. I don't think the lack of the specific act will break your marriage, but there is a certain comfort in having a full sex-life. Why not let things warm up a little? If you take the first step, it gives him reason to give a little too. It doesn't sound like you dislike the act, so why not get the ball rolling?
2006-10-22 23:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not make or break a marriage. Giving and loving one another does rank high on the list of what makes a marriage though. Are the two of you getting lazy? selfish? Marriage takes work and unselfish acts to keep them strong. Also if a couple is married for a long time it is important to keep things interesting in the bedroom. I love my hubby, he loves me, we show it in every way we can think of.
2006-10-23 00:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the same as most things.... we go through phases. Sometimes we're into one thing, sometimes another. What turns us on changes, and what we like to do changes. The same thing can get boring.... especially if we feel manipulated or its not reciprocated. But if its a consistent change, maybe you should be thinking about the relationship.... and if there are any issues you need to address. For me,... oral sex is the most intimate thing there is, and if we're having any sort of problems... its the last thing I want to do for him.
2006-10-22 23:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T THINK IT MAKES OR BRAKES YOUR MARRIAGE. I THINK PEOPLE GET MARRIED FOR LOVE NOT THE SEX BECAUSE YOU CAN GET SEX ANYWHERE. PERSONALLY I DON'T THINK HE SHOULD ACT LIKE THAT BECAUSE WHAT IS HE WOKE UP TOMORROW AND HE LOST THE FEELING IN HIS PENIS AND HE COULDN'T EJACULATE ANY MORE THEN HE WOULD HAVE TO RELY ON LOVE WOULDN'T HE LIFE IS NOT ALL ABOUT BJ TELL HIM TO GROW UP AND GIVE YOU SOME FACE TIME IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN
2006-10-23 00:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't break or make a marriage seeing that there is more to it than just sex, if it does break or make a marriage, then i feel sorry for you, good luck.
2006-10-22 22:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby u didnot marry him for a bj..............
my adivce think for good idea to make him think it is not big deal
2006-10-23 03:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by MAJED 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be happy if my husband wanted sex lucky you
2006-10-23 00:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by ashley l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should make your own dicisions
2006-10-22 23:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋