It bothers me when he his high around me..I like him so much but I don't wanna dump him just cause he gets high all the time...Do you think there could be away where I could get him to stop??
2006-10-22 15:55:25 · 25 answers · asked by snowangel03ak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never attempt to come between a man and his weed, weed will win everytime. Why not try marijuana and try to commune with him and his customs instead of attempting to control and change him. You say you aren't "that kind of person". Are you suggesting that you are better than, or are superior to your boyfriend? Why would you date someone who is "like that", if all your intentions are is to control and change him?
2006-10-22 16:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with someone who used to be a weed smoker. I didnt leave the person because I wasnt doing it. I didnt like it either when he would smoke especially when I am around. He doesnt do it anymore because I showed him the life without it. He has a better job and he is back in school.
2006-10-22 23:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by simplyjaxxs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, when i first started dating my bf a year ago.. he was smoking weed heavily and everyday!!! he was always HIGH, and it used to get me so angry, because he would be really quiet and drugged up!
But he quit smoking weed AND cigerettes for me 3 months into our relationship and he had been smoking since he was 16-17 years old (hes 25 now), if my bf can do it, anyone can do it... believe me you need to spend more time with him, dont talk about weed all the time, spend time doing romantic things and showing him lots and lots of love and affection, then therefore he will drift away from the weed and come more and more closer to you, and you will become his addiction!!!!!
2006-10-23 07:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you can never change anyone. Secondly remember. If you are with him and he is holding, you to will be arrested for the deed. My first husband was into drugs, his weed came first over me and our kids.
We ended up splitting up in the end. It didn't stop there, he taught my boys to use as they were growing up. Many rehab centers later my oldest is finally clean for almost a year. He is lucky to be alive.
Do not think of him. Think of you right now. What kind of life do you want for you self. How do you see yourself living. I wish I would have had the hind site those many years ago to know what I know now. Be with someone who you can share interests with.
If you need to ask wut do I do then you must already realize that you are not convinced he is right for you.
2006-10-22 23:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Medori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he is a weed Lover. You say you love him does he love you or does he love his weeds? This guy is not your Guy because you want to change your self and become someone you are not just cause you think you love this guy. Think carefully what you like about this guy put it on paper and then decide if he is worth the effort you make for him. Remember you need two hands to clap with I sense here you are alone.
2006-10-22 23:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your local AA, they will tell you when/where meetings are held for friends and families of addicts. Go to a meeting, they will offer you support and the type of practical advise you need. It doesn't make any difference how old you are, they will help and guide you to the right resources.
Please do it today.
Alcoholics Annonymous is listed in your telephone book, or phone numbers for local groups are online, just do a simple search,
2006-10-22 23:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your boyfriend or do you lust after him? Because if you are against his life style of drug use and he has made no changes in his life style for you, then he obviously does not reciprocate feelings of love for you. He may have an addiction to drugs that is so strong that he loves drugs and that is the only thing he loves. Obviously he is on a road of destruction. Don't let him take you with him.
2006-10-22 23:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you on this...........you can't change a person who doesn't want to be changed along those same lines you can't help a person who isn't willing to admit he has a drug problem and needs help because in reality they dont want help and as hard as you try to help you will only hit a brick wall time after time and end up stressed and upset. All you can really do for him right now is to pray for him and leave him in God's hands.
Do yourself a favor and get out of this relationship now before you are drug down into doing what he is doing and who knows what else.....I know you probably are thinking that won't happen, but I know what can happen......I had a friend a couple of years ago that as into drugs, drinking and other things and I hung out with her all the time and things and got drug down into what she was into and let me tell you that isnt something I would wish on my worst enemy..........to feel so bad that you feel like you are dying in everyway and that thre is no way out is the worst feeling ive ever had.......Praise God he never let go of me and brought me out of that pit and restored me.
I don't want you to get drug down in what your boyfriend is doing.......you really dont want or need that kind of hurt ..........do yourself a favor and get out of this relationship now.... he isnt willing to give up his weed for you so you need to do what is best for yourself and tell him its over that you will not be around him due to his drug habit........it wont be easy but in the long run you will find that you will be better off and believe me God has a guy for you and when the time is right He will bring him into your life......for now get out of this relationship and take care of yourself.
Good luck to you and God bless.
2006-10-22 23:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by wendyceline2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... That's definately not going to be easy. First how long has he been smoking weed? Second, Don't start doing it becuase he's doing it. That's the wrong way out if you do that. If he loves you and respects you, he will stop.
2006-10-22 22:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by 3Dlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him to pick between you or weed. tell him that he really doesnt know what he is getting himself into. its illegal. and if he is caught he can mess up his whole life. If he truly wants the best for your relationship and his own self, then he would quit. if he doesnt then you need to move on because there are other guys out there and you can find someone just like him who doesnt smoke.
2006-10-22 23:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by spicyangel8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋