2006-10-22 15:46:53 · 10 answers · asked by Mirza M 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I dont think age has much to do with it. You need to look at other factors ie - finances, compatibility etc. If you look at all these things and you two have a good plan then you will be able to move in together without having to run back to your parents/family whenever things go bad. The reason older people think you are too "young" to move in is because some people aren't responsible and move out just to be together but dont think about, rent food bills etc etc
2006-10-22 15:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to wait a little longer. I was with a guy for 3 and a half years before we got engaged and moved in together. The relationship got a lot harder after that and only lasted for another year. You find out a lot more about your significant other when your living with them and its not always easy. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
2006-10-22 15:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Amber F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
It depends on your circumstances. If you get engaged, and then move in together, there is a good chance you'll never get married. You may as well say that you're going steady.
IF you break up, it will be the same as a divorce, except you'll have no legal papers. It will hurt just as much, maybe more, since you have no legal way of dividing stuff,etc.
If you're asking on this forum, I'd assume that you don't have the wisdom and life experience to make this kind of commitment. Grow up. Learn to be by yourself and like your own company. Get your adventures out of the way.
2006-10-22 15:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by megmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, as long as they know what they're getting into. I moved in with my boyfriend when I was almost 19 and we've been living together for a year with no problems. Especially after being together for 2 years, it shouldn't be a problem.
2006-10-22 15:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. I was engaged to my boyfriend (now husband) 8 months into our relationship and then I moved in with him after I graduated from high school. We were almost at our one year anniversary when we moved in together. It was a great way to know if we would really last.
2006-10-22 15:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by julieanthony469 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never smart to live together without a commitment, it brings in all sort of trouble. Get engaged if you want but why ruin it with shacking up. Is nothing sacred?
2006-10-22 17:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is. As long as youre happy and you think its a good step to take in your relationship. My fiance' and I have been engaged since July, and we have lived together since the first month we were dating. *We've been together for almost 2 years* =) Do what makes you happy...
2006-10-22 15:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you go to church or a u subject to a pastor. if not well now u now GOD does not allow adultery and if u live alone n are not married u r in adultery if u wait pray GOD will guide u and when u get married .1 cor 7:1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
2006-10-22 15:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by gustvh2001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is it a gay couple because if so then yes, gay couples always get along. otherwise no two 19year olds should not get married, they'll just get divorced and the guy will lose half of everything he owns plus pay the chic like 2k a week for the rest of his friggen life because his wife decieded to get a sex change so she can never get married!
2006-10-22 15:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by stealth1290 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were my daughter, I would recommend she wait until she is about 25 or so, and suggest they live together until then.
2006-10-22 15:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋