my wife doesnt want sex as much as she use to and i doubt she would like the kinds of kinky things that i like so i have sex with other women and i dont think theres anything wrong with it. i like kinky stuff and my wife cant provide the way i want her to so is it actually wrong of me to cheat?i dont think so
2006-10-22 15:44:11 · 20 answers · asked by bobby THE MAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cheat and you're wrong for doing it. Does that answer your question?
Now onto my opinion of you. I can't stand people who cheat. You 'doubt' that she would like the kinds of kinky things that you like? Have you not ever talked to her about it? Maybe she'd try a few things out. So what if she didn't like every kinky little thing that you like. You can't have everything you want. You have a problem with you and your partner not having the exact same taste in sex? Join the club that every single other person in the world is a part of. And even if you are the biggest freak around and she couldn't get any more vanilla, it still doesn't justify you cheating. You're a sleaze and you disgust me. On top of that, I'm guessing discretion and safety aren't on the top of your list when you're getting off with these women so I'm doubting you use protection which makes your wife that much more of a victim. A potential victim to std's. If you're not getting what you want out of your relationship (sexual needs and others as well) then you talk to her about it and see what you can do to rectify the situation. Not cheat. If you are still not getting what you want out of a relationship, then you start weighing your options. Not cheat.
2006-10-22 15:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't have sex with you b/c you don't know how to turn her on, and it sounds like you have a rejection problem. I hope your wife is screwing the crap out of someone else and that's why she is never in the mood to do it w/ you.
By the way... you sound really young an immature. Did you put this question up for fun to see how women reacted? You can't be serious. Do men like you exist? B/c if you really were cheating would you really announce it like this? Maybe your wife deserves to be cheated on for being w/ someone such as yourself.
2006-10-22 23:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by FreeTruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about potential problems like this that married couples go through before you exchanged vows.What is the matter with you? Just because something doesnt go the way you want, youre going to go out of your marriage and desrtoy it? FOR SEX?? People like you have no business getting married in the first place, you have no idea what it means or have the balls to go through rough times with your spouse, without being unfaithful. You are a sorry excuse that makes the divorce rates skyrocket the way they do today. Shame on you!
2006-10-22 23:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by luv2bawifenmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know that it is wrong, but you're just having so much fun doing it, that you actually want to twist things around just so you don't have to feel guilty about it.
There are no excuses for cheating.
And yes, maybe your wife doesn't want it as much as you do now, but then, have you talked to her about it? Cheating won't help you know. It will only make things worse.
The question is, why doesn't she want it as much as you do, now?
You have to find out and then, you can tell her how you feel. That is, if you really want to work things out.
2006-10-22 22:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by thebatman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her and marry one of the kinky ones. If she wants to be a prude, then let her be one all alone. Most women think that sex is mans responsibility. It's 50% hers too. she should at least try to please you. If you are still unsatisfied, dont cheat, leave for a woman who is in touch with herself sexually. One who cares for more than her own needs. No one like to say it but the truth is women like safety and money and men like wild and sexy... why can't we jsut give each other what each other wants...
Oh, I know many, many women who are prude with thier ubby but used to hump like wild animals with strangers and cheat on thier hubby to keep him 'safe'
2006-10-22 22:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up. I can understand your wife not wanting sex with you. Sounds like you provide real intellegent conversations for her.
2006-10-22 22:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're cheating just for sex that's probably the worst pain she'll ever feel, consider her feelings, dont play with her heart.
2006-10-22 22:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by h2gj87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was in the same situation but after nearly losing a marriage I overcame my desire to cheat. It wasn't worth it for me.
2006-10-22 23:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by jaded2809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask.....
you already know the answer.
Let's turn it around....
if wife wants to cheat? It's ok right?
2006-10-22 22:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if your wife were to go out and sleep with someone else, there'd be no problem, right?
Why don't you just divorce her and let her marry someone who ISN'T a complete jackass?
2006-10-22 22:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋