I met a man briefly- and we have been emailing back and forth- and he keeps asking me for a picture- in a way that makes me think he is giving me the Ugly Test-yes I asked you folks about this but didn't take your advice to send a photo- no, instead I sent him this email: "Josh-is this an ugly test?, cause if it is it could take me awhile to find that photo of me. But if it is really important to you I can tell you the men at the hospital I work at rate me between a 7 and a 9, depending on how much morphine they are on and how single they are. " I thought it was funny but he didn't- he hasn't emailed me since---was it too much or can't he handle a lady with a backbone?
2006-10-22 15:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by upsuckit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It wasn't too much, sounds like it was an ugly test and he didn't want to admit it. Guy was probably a playa and you standing up to him and showing that it wasn't gonna be a booty call type thing made him disappear
2006-10-22 15:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Scott T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what I always vowed too do when I first started chatting with guys on the net..I was on this Friendfinders site back a few years ago. I always said that if I started chatting with a guy and he seemed really nice and etc..BUT asked for a Pic before he even tried getting too know me, he wasn't worth even talking too ! The way I see it is..It's more important what's on the inside of a person than whats on the outside..
What you told him was funny and if he can't take a joke then you are better off not even talking too him!! And if he has too have a pic before he can continue talking too you then you're better off without him also ..
Oh..by the way...I met the man i am now married too on the net..and he didn't ask too see a pic of me until we had talked for about two months!!! I think we actually talked on the phone a few times before he ever asked me if i wanted too send him a pic..lol..
2006-10-22 16:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may have been a little confrontational too soon... but the email was very funny! I don't think you should be offended if someone wants to see a picture. Some physical attraction is the 1st prerequisite for everyone isn't it?
2006-10-22 15:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there are alot of guys out there without a sense of humor. There are also ones who are weenies. I have encountered quite a few and they would all run away from me, cause I had a backbone. I thoght it was funny myself and there are guys who would have came with a smarta$$ comment to ya. I found one of those guys and I am sure you will too, just let that one go. Good luck.
2006-10-23 07:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thought you were avoiding the picture issue and therefore assuming you are ugly. Remember, when reading emails, all you see are words. You did not say what you said in person for him to read your body langage or hear your tone of voice. How was he supposed to know you were joking around.
2006-10-22 15:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was an ugly test and your answer said, Ugly, with a capital U. Should have just asked. Why do you want a picture? Send me one first. Something, but sarcasm?
2006-10-22 15:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was hilarious, but then I have an unusual sense of humour. Unfortunately not everyone this day and age does.
You likely scared him away. But some people are visual people, and maybe the picture was important to him.
If he is that thin skinned, your better to move on. You deserve better.
2006-10-22 15:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he can't handle a woman with a backbone; better to find this out now rather than later.
2006-10-22 15:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I think I would be scared of seeing a picture after a woman sent me that email. Sorry, just one man's opinion.
2006-10-22 15:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋