Meaning, starting from no mood at all.
2006-10-22 15:02:04 · 23 answers · asked by shlomogon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Compliment her. Really her: her eyes, her hair, tell her she's beautiful. Avoid complimenting her clothes or jewelry or something that is not a 'part' of her. Ask her if she wants a massage, or needs help with something she's doing. Stare at her lovingly.
2006-10-22 15:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by DeAnna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start in the morning with a cute come on about what you want to do to her later. Show her some extra affection. If possible call her during the day to remind her about what you want to happen that night. If you can leave a few notes around where she will be sure to find them. Be explicit. Romance her. After being together awhile it seems that many guys are only affectionate when they want some. Try being more attentive outside of the bedroom and you may find her making the move on you more pften. Try to start with some soft kisses and caresses. Grab her butt while she is doing dishes after dinner, draw her a bath, put candles around. that type of thing should definately work. Have fun!!!
2006-10-22 15:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Stephani 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't. Women confuse me. But I've read that they are in the mood most often when they feel safe and secure, loved and comforted. Women are drawn to that. Men, on the other hand, pretty much when his wife does anything; touches him, takes her blouse off, even if it is to change into another, walks in the room, etc., we're ready.
So, anyway, back to the wife thing. Try to prime the pump so to speak. Give her the acknowledgment she seeks. Non sexual touch. Rub her shoulders. Give her a pedicure, etc., soon she'll be coming after you. That used to work for someone I know. Lost touch with the couple.
2006-10-22 15:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be helpful.
Help her into her seat, help her to her breakfast, touch her in her erogenous zones, give her a little massage when she least expects it.
If you're ALWAYS putting in a little two cents toward a whoopie session, she'll be in a constant state of preparation. Even the least interested woman will be receptive most of the time with this type of treatment.
If you think about it, you've seen men that do this. You think they're too polite, where what they're really doing is directing their sex lives through attention to the wife.
Good luck!
2006-10-22 15:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well as a married woman I can say don't do anything to cause an arguement. Then try a nice back rub and don't make any advances....i.e. grabbing he boobs etc. You could also try and do some of the things around the house that day so she has less to do and can sit and relax then she might be ready for whoppie, because she won't be so tired.
2006-10-22 15:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by shetaz5360 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get up after supper clear the table make her some tea...do the dishes...give her a foot rub ask her what she would like to watch on tv...I guarantee you she will be more in the mood than if you were to do the usual smoochy stuff..
2006-10-22 15:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Help with all the house cleaning, vacuum, wash and fold and put away clothes. Get the kids down to sleep. Have a caring, helping attitude along with good personal hygiene.
2006-10-22 15:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to start with a good relaxing nights sleep.
Great no-stress morning.
Lunch or dinner out.
Obviously showing genuine affection the whole time.
If you follow this loosely, she should give it up!
CT
2006-10-22 15:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kissing on the neck amd sweet talking at the same time always work for me
2006-10-22 15:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by vee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by playing some soft music, give her something to drink (if she drinks) and start kissing her neck.
2006-10-22 15:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by eyes_only_fan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋