The thing that seems fishy is that you let your daughter stay in this dangerous relationship after you knew what he had done to her. This isnt a true story because a real mom wouldnt let some man rape her and maker her quit college and become a stripper. If this is true I PITY YOU! YOU GIVE ALL MOMS A BAD NAME. Im african-american and this makes me feel angry because you used to many sterotypes.
2006-10-22 15:37:36
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answered by TastyCookies 3
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Oh my gosh,
I can't believe how many people on here are so quick to make knee-jerk reactions. My favorite one? "Get the police/authorities." How many people are so gullible that they can't see what you are doing? Even after some other people posted that the story wasn't real, people still posted some crap about getting the authorities. You really did prove your point. It also goes to show that the people on here respond without reading the other answers that might open up another path, or at least to get them to stop posting stuff like "get her away" and "never let your daughter date an older man." Some of us know what you are doing. It's up to the other ones to figure it out on their own.
Here's a bit of information for all the ones that were gullible...if you found this to be true and posted that you would call the authorities, you could very well be the daughter with an older man that the asker is talking about, but he doesn't have to be black or a pimp. You could get taken by anyone if you believed this story. Stop saying what you would do or what he should do.
2006-10-22 22:28:43
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answered by Miss P. Square Pinky Swear 3
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What a progressive liberal idiot! First of all, your daughter was 18, and you were happy to see her with a man that was 49? What about when she's 38 and he's 69? Think she'll be happy then? You set her up for this, and you know it! Now you'd better help her get away from that pimp, and get her some help! And when she gets sick from the HIV, you'd better be there to take care of her!
2006-10-22 22:09:56
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answered by rebecca_sld 4
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Get the authorities (police, battered women's shelter - anything available) involved immediately. This man is obviously a threat to your daughter and to you. I'm all for the enlightened point of view about race, but an abuser is an abuser regardless of his colour and 'it's society's fault' doesn't cut it. Every individual is responsible for his/her actions and must be accountable as such. Might he be redeemable, with help, to justify your reprehensibly soft position? I hope so. But right now, get your daughter out of there before she's a corpse.
2006-10-22 22:15:17
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answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6
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None of that stuff is alright. Absolutely none. The man was old enough to be her father and the age gap relationships arent good then older person call be more controlling. With what has happened...call the police. He assulted you and that is jail time. Not to be mean but it sounds like a Jerry Springer or Maury moment.
Call the cops. Or get your daughter and yourself AWAY from that man.
2006-10-22 22:05:38
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answered by cjness 1
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This is not a healthy relationship. She needs to make up her mind to get out -- unless she does, I'm not sure that there is anything you can do.
Long ago, you should have stopped being happy about this particular relationship. Your daughter will need your love and support.
You don't owe this man any money unless you borrowed money from him. Don't pay him unless you truly owe him. If he threatens or continues to try to extort money from you - this becomes a law enforcement matter. Call your local or county law enforcement.
2006-10-22 22:08:05
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answered by me 7
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Red Flags should have went up when you realized that man was 39, chances are that if a man is that old he is looking for a toy. Shame on you for being naive and not protecting your daughter. This evil man is ruining her, he probably is forcing her into prostituition, internet porn and lord knows what else you need to get your daughter and move to safer place before you really lose her.
If this is a joke, its a bad one.
2006-10-22 22:12:34
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answered by Bu Tran 6
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Please oh please call the police,
You cannot control what you're daughter does, as sad as it is to see her drown in the life , but you can control what happens to you. Obviously there are other things involved that are beyond your control, and the authorities need to be involved. Whatever race, no man has the right to assault you, and by sweeping under the carpet and ignoring it, you are enabling this behavior to continue, therefore causing your daughter more harm. She may be mad, but she will one day understand how you helped her so.
2006-10-22 22:07:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Look at all these people taking your bait.
How ridiculous can you be? No "enlightened" person would allow any of this to happen. FYI: not all African-American men like to pimp out young girls.
Take your story elsewhere.
2006-10-22 22:11:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Report him to authorities. Get your daughter away from
him and his friends. He is going to (or already has) ruined
her life. I would say this no matter what color or nationality
her boyfriend is. No man should get by with beating his girl,
making a sex slave of her, or assaulting you. He is
actuallly a felon. p.s. don't give this loser any more money - not one red cent, just get your daughter away from him. He is a
miserable human being.
2006-10-22 22:10:31
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answered by Anonymous
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