A lot of people want me to go out with this guy that likes me and i like what should I do?

Question

I'm shy and since a lot of people think we should go out and that we look good together that makes me more shy. He's also my best friend and I'm hoping I see him at the Fall festival at my school. If you want to write to me my email is [e-mail]. Please help me I really like this guy.

Answer 1

First, stop listening to "a lot of people." Looking good together doesn't mean you're meant to be together, it just means that you look good paired together.

Second, if you like this guy ask him if he wants to go to the Fall festival with you. He's your best friend so just take the plunge. It's the only way you're going to find out if the feeling is mutual.

Answer 2

Start with something small. Go out for a snack with him. But if you like each other already and you're friends, I don't see the problem. Flirt with him, stand a little too close to him, play with your hair.

Answer 3

if you are friends and he wants to be with you the other ladies are going to be disappointed

its difficult to ignore other people ---- we all want their approval yet you must this is between the two of you --- let him know how you feel

Thank you for the email but ill stick to answering here

Answer 4

Go for it! Also just so you know, friendships are never the same once you've dated so be careful crossing that line.

Answer 5

it shouldn't matter if a lot of people want you to go out with a guy.it depends on what makes you comfortable.

Answer 6

I f you want to go out with him then you should do it.

Answer 7

if you like him and he likes you ,,go for it!!! its always hard when your shy, but you already know him so it should be easier then you think,your just scared that will go away,,,trust me.

Answer 8

Go for it, really!