We went to high school together and been together for about 10 months. After I broke up with him I didnt want to see him or talk to him. I guess he didnt either, but after awhile I noticed him trying to get my attention to talk him, still i didnt want nothing to do with him. Some how he got my number, I never answered and he kept calling a few times a month. Finally i answered one day and to make our conversation short I asked him why after so long y do u want to be friends now.... he said because we had something. So isnt that enough reason why I shouldnt be friends with him? I still luv him =(
What should I do? What is he thinking?
2006-10-22 14:43:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on and treat that episode as a good experience - you are young and need better and nicer people. There must have been a valid reason for the breakup and it will not change.
2006-10-22 14:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like YOU broke up with HIM earlier. What were your reasons? If they still exist, you'll end up doing it again. Are you sure you want to waste part of your precious life building another sand castle in the same spot where a wave knocked it down last time?
2006-10-22 21:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels bad for how he may have acted with you and still loves you to and hopes to restart obviously you love him. No is there any reason the keeps you from not wanting to get back into some situation with hime again?? If no, or not really, give it a chance.
2006-10-22 21:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by addavis083003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach with caution, extreme caution
i'd try to hold out on him, and make him show patience as if you were just getting to know him all over - this will tell you alot about what his motivation is. If he starts getting impatient and irritable, he was back for action alone
2006-10-22 21:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by bay_area_broker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. Continue to move on. You been doing ok without him this long. He could be between women and needs one to hold him over for the winter months (Slow dating period).
2006-10-22 21:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by fijisun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he still loves you too, just remember why you and he split up, and be upfront with him if you do decide to go back into it. maybe he realiazes he really cared for you, but remember that the same things that went wrong before could go wrong again, so you have to set boundaries with him this time.
2006-10-22 21:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was hurt before. But he may sincerely want to be friends with you. I would try it esp if you still care about him.
2006-10-22 21:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by lonelykuroinu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if u like him or not if u dont then forget him cause hes just tryin 2 get back with u if u do like him then do it. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-22 21:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dated less than a year. If you wont to meet him for a cup of coffee its ok. tell him he has one chance and if he messes it updont call you agan.!
2006-10-22 22:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for an easy way to get laid. Be careful.
2006-10-22 21:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋