a married man to have feelings for another woman?
2006-10-22 14:43:33 · 17 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We all have passing thoughts about an attractive person, but acting on it is entirely different. So you asked if it's normal....yes. Is it wrong...only if you act on it.
2006-10-22 14:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal ? Do you mean to ask if it's strange for it to happen ? Is it right ? Probably not, but I don't know enough about the situation to really answer. What are feelings ? Does this married man want something from other woman or does he just care ? It is a tricky situation. While I feel it is okay to have a friend of the opposite sex and care about them, I don't feel it's right to have romantic feelings. We are human and easily confused. So it probably is normal if some feelings started, you just have to control them before you get in to deep.
2006-10-23 06:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by randband4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The same mechanism that made him attracted to his wife is still alive and working inside of him. Faithfulness is a promise, not a biological imperative. As long as he doesn't act on those feelings, the new woman will remain nothing more than a private fantasy.
2006-10-22 21:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no! but its OK for a married woman to have feelings for a diff rent man!
2006-10-22 22:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of feelings,Theres feelings for a friend then theres feeling for a lover which is yours,then ask if it is normal.I have as many women friends as men friends and I have feeling for both but dont want to go to bed with neather
2006-10-22 21:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are men. Yes. It isn't that you have the feelings, it is what you do with them. Personally, I find that if you want your wife to be happy, you sublimate your feelings and direct them to her. Safe too.
2006-10-22 21:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal, but you have to be strong to suppress it. you have made a commitment. if you can't commit to your partner then get a divorce so you can save all the heartache you will cause if you pursue this woman during your marriage.
2006-10-22 21:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Andrew. Just becuase you are married doesnt mean you are dead.
2006-10-22 22:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by KaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal , ok? but sence it is a married man ....i won't go into it all. you know the facts...
2006-10-22 21:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
That's the start of a cheating man.
But if it's friendship it shall all be okay.
2006-10-22 21:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋