I have a fun personality and I am outgoing, but I don't overdue it. I believe all of my friends know my personality for what I'd like them to. However, there is this one girl that most of my friends are friends with. We don't talk much, and don't see each other much. When she's around, it's like I turn all quiet and it's like my personality can't even show. She is very loud and funny, and it's like I don't really have a chance to say anything. When we do talk at all, it sometimes seems like some things I say to her are dumb. When I'm with my other friends, I have tons of fun and can laugh a lot and basically I can't with her because she is talking to my other friends. I just want her to know my real personality, I guess because I want to be better friends with her. I know I should let what one person thinks bother me, but it sometimes does. I don't want to sound dumb! I just want to be better friends. Maybe she doesn't even think this- I don't know. I am not a lesbian either. Thanks!!
2006-10-22 14:39:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Her out going personality overwhelms you to the point your in awww and speechless... she may seem so cool to you that anything you say seems lame compared to her...
Try and relax when she's around... let her do whatever she does... after awhile you soon get comfortable with her... it'll take a few times being around her... it's like the new has to wear off her.... and in time she won't seem so cool... don't try to be what she is... no expects you to be... be yourself... it'll work out... in time you'll look back and wonder what all the fuss was about...
I hope this helps....
2006-10-22 14:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be a little intimidating to you, perhaps because she is louder & funneir than yourself & get along very well with your friends? Are you afraid to talk to her?
You may she shy around her & really wants her acceptance because you don't know her as well as you know all of your friends, this probably why you end up saying "dumb" things around her.
Pretend she is not there, and joke around like you always do.
2006-10-22 22:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have or had the same problem. What I did was started talking to her like I would my other friends. Sometimes I would just forget she was there and then work her into the conversation. Now we are best friends.
2006-10-22 22:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're intimidated by her for some reason. Is she really hot, or something? Perhaps you can try having a few drinks to help you relax and be yourself.
2006-10-22 21:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by bryanmantle777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kno people like that too they just kind of steal the spotlight from you. i would hang out with her one-on-one to see what shes like when the two of you are together. maybe shes mean maybe shes nice, you dont really kno so get to know her better. when your hanging out with her and your other friends, dont worry about trying to compete with her for attention. your friends already know what youre like and like you for who you are.if you try to compete with this girl, theyll just think youre being annoying.
2006-10-22 22:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by renegade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mabe you can not talk to her is because she is not the freind for just stick with your old friends and they will come looking for sense you have a good personality.
2006-10-22 21:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are feeling intimidated by her. relax and be yourself.
2006-10-23 00:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋