I really like this guy, and i think my mom took advantage of his youth when they got together. He was my first real case of puppy love. He and I are still attracted to each other 25 years later. He didn't go out with me back then because he didn't feel right being with me after he had been with her. All this time he has felt responsible for what happened with her, and worried that he had ruined my life. But I think she lead him on and he was not respnsible for it. This summer we met each other again and the spark is still there. We are both married; neither of us wants a divorce, but it is like we are trying to make up for lost time. We can barely see each other without thinking about being together. We are like teenagers again when we are around each other, all my fears and frustrations go away and I feel so free. i have lunch with him once a month, and the next time, he wants to go to a hotel. What should I do? Help!
2006-10-22 14:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by Lila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
SAY YES IF YOU LIKE S**. IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. HE COULD BE PLAYING YOU. YOU GOT GUTS IF YOU SAY YES.
2006-10-22 14:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by BABY QUARTNEY Q. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Back up to the part when you say you are both married and neither wants a divorce.
There is no lost time to make up for. You both are better off going to your homes where your spouses live. You know, the ones who trust you to do what is right?
It sounds like you are both rather infatuated with a memory. Let the memory die and live in the now.
2006-10-22 14:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you like the person that much, get a divorce! Otherwise stay away from him. If you are having all the feelings that you say you are, then it's best if you don't see him anymore. If you really love your Husband you will forget this guy.
2006-10-22 14:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sadies papa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy answer dont go --- if neither of you want to make a commitment to each other then its only an affair --- looks all romantic it will still hurt your spouses when they find out and they will
you must have felt the same for your husband so why not recapture the feeling with him --- take him to a hotel --- room service candles rose petals on the bed and NO guilt or hiding after
2006-10-22 14:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you didn't say if your mom is still alive, and what are you thinking going out with a guy that much older than you with that kind of history with your mom??? 25yrs ago, she was young too, what were you, like 12???
there are alot of fish in the sea, and my mom used to tell me to keep throwing them back until i found the right one.
guys who have dated/slept with your friends or relatives are off limits unless you are willing to give up the relationship with the friend/relative forever.....is this guy really worth you ruining what you have with your mom, your husband, and his marriage, and any children involved. if so, you are a shallow b****
2006-10-22 14:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by NeverReady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT OF THIS DO YOU HAVE A SOLIDD MARIIAGE HOME FUTURE KIDS FINICALLY SECURE APPARETNTLY NEITHER OF YOU WANT A DIOVORCE-- YOU CAN BE FRIENDS BUT YOU ARE GONNA GET HURT BIG TIME DANGER ZONE-- GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS--- HIT THE HIGHWAYS TELL HIM LOOK ITS OVER WITH, IAM MARRIED LOVE MY HUBYY AND MY LIFE GET OUT NOW!! END THIS!!
2006-10-22 14:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how much you love your husband if you do love him then I would say forget about the other guy
2006-10-22 14:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go. ya'll are both married, this would not be right to your husband or his wife. just leave it as a fantasy and no one gets hurt.
2006-10-22 14:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by firefly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he was with ur mom then don't be with him, Thats kind of wierd.
2006-10-22 15:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the hotel with the motherf@cker! This was meant to be sarcastic!
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2006-10-22 14:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋