She says she went to the court to press charges about him chocking her out. But she sneaks and texts or talks to his friends.
2006-10-22 14:25:37 · 4 answers · asked by Chauni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing you can do for your family member is, 1. Be there for her! She's going to need her family. Another thing is she needs to get help, and when she seeks that help she needs to stay away from him and his friends. Because if she is still around his friends they are bound to see each other and it's a repeating cycle. My best suggestion is that she needs to stay far away from him or it could POSSIBLY, get worse. But as for you, just be a friend to her even though she's family, you can still be a friend. Don't talk down to her, talk to her and let her know your there, and the only way for him to stop hurting her is if she stays away. Good luck!
2006-10-22 14:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you saying that she is living with him? Its kind of confusing the way you have it written.
Abuse should be an end all...she needs to leave immediately and dont return until he actually gets treatment for his abuse and makes a noticable change, otherwise, he WILL do it again and she might not make it out alive....and whats with the BUT she texts or talks to his friends business???? Are you insinuating that she is asking for abuse...nobody asks to be physically hurt...I hope thats not what you are saying there. And so what unless she is married...and even if she was, she can talk to whomever she wants to. Nobody has control of another person.
2006-10-22 21:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's being abused she needs to get out of there or call the police.
2006-10-22 21:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter whose name is on the lease, she should report him and get away!
2006-10-22 21:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋