2006-10-22 13:44:31 · 24 answers · asked by Loving life! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this is your only choice I see where you get your name. Well, Despair, suffering is optional and these things usually show up in relationships that don't last. Tell him if he wants three, he'd better find two because you won't be back.
2006-10-22 13:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!!! If your mate wanted a 3some I think its because he has not dedicated himself 100% to you yet. He still wants to experiment around. Sure sign that he could cheat on you if you didn't go ahead with the 3some. Dear, hes being selfish of his needs and not respecting your feelings. He should be more than satisfied just being with you. If you have to you can spark you sex life up without bringing in a third party.Good Luck!!!
2006-10-22 14:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are worried that your husband is going to have a relationship behind your back, there are deeper issues that you should be sorting out. Threesomes can be good experiences for married couples (though I'm not sure that I could ever partake in one), but I don't think that they work in ANY WAY if both people are not completely trusting of one another in the relationship. So, to answer your question, NO, I don't think that anyone should have a threesome for the purpose of trying to make sure that thier mate doesn't go behind your back with someone else.
2006-10-22 13:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by missapparition 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely NOT!
If he wants to go behind your back he will and their won't be anything you could do to stop him. Start having 3somes and he will quickly start venturing out because he will not view other women as taboo.
This is the quickest way to ruin your marriage. You will have images of him being turned on by someone else. He will be giving to someone else what he only promised to you.
Remember the "forsaking all others..." part of your wedding vows.
Deal accordingly with him as he acts. Don't worry yourself to death over something that hasn't happened.
2006-10-22 14:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having a 3some won't stop him from going behind yourback. Because he may want a 2some with her and no you. Now what do you say? Would that be cheating?
things that make you go hmmmm
2006-10-22 14:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ant O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say i am a wife and a successful professional woman.
My answer is YES and let me elaborate
Fact is that if your husband ( or you) have sexual fantasies one day if the 'stars ailing' you or your partner ( husband/wife)will act on them.
Now there are two schools of thought:
1 - i don't want to know about it - have no control over what happens nor with whom
2- get me involved i want to be in control and set rules about what happens
When you get married you take that person for what he/she is not more not less. He/she is a person with normal desires and wants - do you want to help fulfill them or do you want him/her to go to someone else to get what he/she needs?
In my line of work i get to see so many couples just turning to ash just because the parties lied to each other before the marriage or even during about who they are what they need what makes them happy and so on....it's sad.
2006-10-22 15:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by ilfecoach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! He doesnt respect you if he is making you feel like he plans on cheating if you dont join in. You honestly thik having 3somes is going to keep him from cheating? Its going to make matters worse bc he wont respect you anymore and he wont want sex with you alone again.
2006-10-22 13:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would depend on how often you plan on "pleasing" him and doing what he wants you to do...is this something you want also? if not definitely don't do it. And think about it what will be next...these fantasies usually only get wilder and some people once they are involved, they do not go away, this becomes a lifestyle...
2006-10-22 13:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Droopi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I tried this one time with a girlfriend and this guy dave, i took off my shirt and the two of them laughed.
The next day my girlfriend took dave to the car dealership and baught him a hummer if you know what i mean, i think you do,
better to be there I would think.
2006-10-22 14:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to step back and look at the big picture! Does this interest you at all? If it does then go for it, it will help to spice things up. If not then you have to watch your "back", if you think he will go behind it then you need to talk to him about it. But if you can't trust him then maybe you need to rethink your relationship.
2006-10-22 15:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by princessfirefly75 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋