Need lots of advice....please?

Question

Im not looking for judgemental people to help me out with this or people lecturing me about am i ready or if i really think my boyfriend will leave me or stay....i just want advice on what u THINK about me maybe being pregnant.well everytime my boyfriend and i have sex, he always "bust" in me and that makes my chance of being pregnant even higher i know. about 2-3weeks i just got off my period. so i cant tell yet if im pregnant or not. but last week i threw up a lot but it was only for one whole day. and i felt fine the whole time besides when i was throwin up,and i had bad headachs...i need some advice on if when you are preg. can you throw up one day and maybe a few weeks later throw up more? its not that easy for me to just go buy a test and find out, my parents dont know that i might be...yet.maybe i should just wait until the nov.7th to see if i get my period....i dont know im so confused. i hope i am though! i just want to know RIGHT now :) well please help me out...THANKS!

Answer 1

Wow, ok girl, first of all, slow down. Its always hard to just take things one day at a time when you are worried about what is going on. Now that you are worried that you might be pregnant, chances are your period will end up being late, trust me, been there done that. So now you just gotta take it one day at a time. I realize that you are young and scared. It will be ok no matter what the circumstances end up being. But for now, yes you can end up throwing up one day and not for a while. With my first baby, I was puking all the time. With the second one, I did for a bit and then not at all. With the third child, I would and then not and then would and wow it was just confusing for me lol. I didn't know what was going on with that one. Good luck, please find someone that you can talk to and next time you wanna have sex, please please please use some form of birth control, the rhythm method does not work. And neither does pulling out. And just take a deep breath, I know its hard and scary right now, but you can do it no matter what happens. Planned Parenthood is a great place to go. GL

Answer 2

It sounds like you are very happy and want to know if you are pregnant. Right now is just going to be a wait and thing though there is no way of telling until maybe at the earliest next week.

About the question of can you be throwing up today and fine tomorrow. That's about how morning sickness is trust my I have the worst cases of with each and every pregnancy I've had. Yesterday was a great day and today was so awful. You could at the same thing for three days and be fine and then eat that same thing next week and it make you sick. It is very possible that you could also have morning sickness this soon too. If you want this then do it, which it sound like you do. I hope this helps but for more info try going to www.babycenter.com There is alto of great info at this web site I visit it about every day so I hope thing work out well for you.


IF you want to get a tel the best brand is EPT they are a little pricey but it's worth it because I spent over fifty dollars on cheap test with my first daughter. EPT was the only one that picked up on the hormone. You can even take this test up to five day before your missed period (I think).

Answer 3

well,my bf always 'do' that to me as well,n now im 3mths pregnant.however,i did not begin to throw up until i was more than 2mths.2-3 weeks off your period,that's too early to tell, though i have to say that it's always different for individual.when i throw up,it happens the whole day,i can't brush my teeth after my meals,i have to wait about 2hours so that i won't throw what i ate,but it's not always a guarantee.then the next day i would feel just fine.then it comes again the day after.so it's not continuous.my sense of smell is also heightened, so i'm quite sensitive to strong smell.and headaches,oh yeah, i remember them.if you're really pregnant,the first 2or3mths is always the worst days.it really shows the symptoms.headaches,dizziness,loss of appetite,things just smell bad,and throwing up.
but,all that u've experience might just be a coincidence.becoz it's still too early to find out.i only found after 1 1/2 mths.
it is a lot of responsibility to be pregnant,and you would really want to have somebody by your side during your pregnancy becoz of the many sickness you would experience.it kinda make u feel lonely if you don't.
wish you all the best.

Answer 4

It really is too early to tell if you are pregnant. You'll need to wait to see if you miss your next period (but try not to stress about it cause that could make you miss your period too). If you miss your next period, find out if there is a Planned Parenthood or another clinic in your area, then go there to take a pregnancy test. Clinics can also give you help in getting prenatal care. If you find out you are pregnant, the best thing to do would be to tell your parents if you can. Even if they are angry at first, you are still their daughter, and hopefully they would help to make sure that you get proper medical care and emotional support. I don't know the situation between you and your boyfriend, but if you find out you are pregnant, be prepared to have to go through it without him. You sound like you are kind of young, and I'm guessing he probably is too. Most guys in high school would be scared to death to find out they're going to be a parent. I wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out for you.

Just one more thing, and I am not being judgemental. If you find out you are not pregnant, you might want to think very hard about if you are ready for motherhood. Babies are wonderful, they bring you lots of joy, but as wonderful as motherhood is, it is just as difficult. You will spend the next 18 years doing for your child first and yourself second. If that's something you are ready for, then go for it. But if you're not, start taking birth control pills, make your bf wear condoms, do something, because once you become a parent, you are always a parent.

Answer 5

hmmm, this is a tough one. It is very possible that you may be pregnant. If you've had unprotected sex(without the use of condoms) and your not real regular on taking your birth control pills then anything is possible at this point. I would say, that if you late for you period, then try and find a pregnancy clinic in your area(if there is one) and go there, they will usually give free pregnancy tests and do NOT have to contact your parents. My advice to you is if you are pregnant you should tell your parents right away. They will respect the fact that you didn't hide anything from them and that you were honest, not to mention the fact that you will need to seek medical treatment and care for yourself.
Best of luck to you and hope everything works out.

Answer 6

this is a girl answering.. Don't take this the wrong way, I am not judgemental but your question is spastic, calm down, please. Go to Planned Parenthood and see if you are pregnant. I am guessing you are still in high school or you would not be this panicked. Yes, you can be pregnant and throw up sporadically. As you progress you may start throwing up daily. You ovulate every month and can get pregnant around the 12th, 14th, or 16th day after you start your period, if you have a pretty regular cycle, every 28 days. Planned Parenthood is my advice or be a big girl and confide in your mother, best to be honest, it goes that much farther, trust me!

Answer 7

Its hard to say that you are pregnant or not. The only way of you to know is to take a home pregnancy test. If you live in the U.S.A go to a free clinic or a planned parenthood and see if the can help you. Many people have said that they sell home pregnancy tests at the dollar store that you can purchase. Good luck to you.

Answer 8

if it was for just one day you might have had the flu or something you or not going to be able to tell until around the time you next period will be but don't stress on it either cause that can cause your period to be late also that also gives you a little time to get a test but here are a couple of ways to do it with out your parents finding out :
1. go to planned parenthood they can give you a test and all your opitions
2. go to a drug store out (out of your area/town) and buy the test then take it in their bathroom (one of my best friends did this in high school when she found out she was pregnant then 5 yrs later when she and her son moved back in with her parents after her divorce she had to do it again and sure enough again she was)

You normally can find out 28days after your last period

Answer 9

Its not easy to go buy a test?...how about going to the doctor and getting tested? you may not necessarly be pregnant, periods can be late for all sorts of reasons, and considering your not late yet perhaps your over reacting? throwing up for one day doesnt mean its morning sickness, I sugguest you go get an early detection test kit, whats harder...getting the test kit or telling your parents you think your pregnant...if your worried they will find out about the test kit, buy it from a different store than they shop at, and do it at a friends house...or even in a public rest room.
You cant be leaping to conclusions that you are or are not.
If your not, get yourself some form or birth control.

Answer 10

Pregnancy takes a weird toll on your body...so you never can know with the whole throwing up thing. Everyones body deals with pregnancy differently. Maybe talk to the school nurse about it? She/He can get you a test....Or maybe one of your friends can get you one and you can take it at your school (i did that once for a friend in highschool). Or you can just calmly wait for your period, make sure that you dont stress about it becuase that might make you miss your period.
Good luck!
P.s Dont listen to negative people, and please dont get an abortion. Motherhood is not easy, but its worth it. I wouldnt trade it for anything, and I am a young mom myself.