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get married to some one u dont love?,then u beat on your wife and when she leaves u u beg her to come back and that u wont hit her any more than 2 months later u start hitting her again so she leaves again and files for a devorce but you still contenu to destrory her life anyway u can. why !!!!!!!

2006-10-22 13:16:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

and after they feel better it is always i love u why do u make me do that

2006-10-22 13:39:41 · update #1

hay dark ange my night is bad enough do u really need to be like that get over it

2006-10-22 17:14:03 · update #2

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The only beating in my relationship is my woman on my meat.

2006-10-23 01:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Please don't say you guys. Only a butt hole would beat on his wife or marry somebody he didn't love. However, some men look at women as property and think they own them so when the woman don't do as they want the man may beat her.
I have a better question for females in that position why would you stay, or go back to, a man who is beating you up? Hit his butt with some hot grits then walk out the door and don't ever come back. Change your number so he can't get in touch with you, so he can beg you to come back and be his punching bag.
*P.S: Real Lovers don't have to beat each other up to get them to do things.

2006-10-22 20:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0 0

Some people have a very distorted view on what love is. To abusers, "love" means that they have total control and their partners have total submission.
Many people are not like this. I get the feeling that you are dealing with this yourself and have a hard time finding a healthy partner.
Call the police whenever he crosses a line. They might not help every time but this will make a track record for the abuser that you can use against him in court.
There are also domestic abuse hot-lines you can call and get information on how to protect yourself and get your life back together.

2006-10-22 20:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0 0

I'm a guy and I find that awful! I think this disturbed man was using his wife a s a mechanism for frustration and well as control. It sounds like a mind game, to see if they can continue to dominate over someone. Unfortunately, a lot of people are like that (women too!) You probably should obtain some restraining order to restrict contact from this sick man. You don't always have to be the victim here. I hope and pray things will get better

2006-10-22 20:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Professor Bradley 3 · 0 0

anger that needs to come out, so you take it out on your wife, when the fight is over the pattern begins all over again where you apologize, your remorseful, than the anger sets in again and the only way to relieve this anger is to physically abuse the wife again.my daughter was in an abusive marriage,and after the abuse he would be so humbly sorry and be so kind and considerate for awhile, but the abuse kept happening.they claim a woman will go back to an abusive relationship 7 times before she leaves it. let me tell you that they don't change, and before you they physically abused someone else in their life. my daughter finally got her divorce and moved on in life, remarried and has never once been physically abused by the new hubby. its a battle you can't win, so next time just go through with the divorce, my daughter still loved her hubby when she filed and got the divorce, but for her sanity and for her safety she had to move on. the next beating could mean death to you, so why chance it, you have a choice here, your choice today will determine your destiny. the choice is yours.

2006-10-22 20:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0 0

this is not all men so do not use this to become totally anti-men. there are people that are in need of help they abuse they seldom feel love but often feel anger. It is known that they often tell the victim they caused it. In cases of real abuse it should be reported and an order sought...you should find a center for abused women and get moral support to get you through this. If none in your area seek info from a few local churches there are many out reaches for these things and it costs nothing.

2006-10-22 20:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by davidsirknight 3 · 0 0

This is something I have never understood either. Does anyone actually ever believe that this kind of obnoxious behavior is ever going to change someone's mind and make her love him? On what planet would that ever happen?

"Oh, John, I thought you were such a jerk and a loser, but since you beat the crap out of me, now I realize how much I love you and can't live without you." Yeah, right.

And then there are the losers who go and murder some girl who dumped them and then commit suicide. If they're going to commit suicide, why don't they just do it? What difference will it make to them whether or not they kill someone else?

I just can't for the life of me understand what kinds of thoughts can be going on in somebody's head that can make any of this make sense.

2006-10-22 20:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Hugh Mility 1 · 0 0

Beware, you are asking for an abuser to come knocking at your door. Realize, that only a person who has no boundaries set for themselves will allow this to happen. First of all most times, abusers are abusers of some sort from the beginning, and any person who cannot set boundaries and stays with one needs just as much help as the abuser themselves.
I might add, in some countries, it is allowed and condoned. Thank God not in the US.

2006-10-22 20:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by lavender2dream4 2 · 0 0

From one "Angel" to another- personally I never had to endure this, however I do know women that are like this are 'co-dependant' personalities.

To put it into a better perspective let me explain like this. A woman who becomes co-dependant on a man starts to believe he is like a vital organ in her body. She knows she needs him to live, even if this 'organ' she depends on for life has cancer- she can still breath and live. Although the quality of life is low, it's better than being dead. She would need to have a new "organ" in order to survive. Men aren't attracted to co-dependant women, only the controlling types, thus the woman never breaks free from the cycle; even if she does manage to get away from him.

2006-10-22 20:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This is a completely wrong stereotype of guys in general. There are male organizations out there against this kind of behavior. I certainly do not condone it. Women are a privileged class within our society, one that should be forever cherished and respected. To any woman in this situation, I seriously suggest seeking counseling or legal assistance. No woman deserves to live in a cycle of abuse!

2006-10-22 20:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 3 · 1 0

I don't beat on my wife nor would I ever unless she wants it. But then it is mutual. However as for literal beating they are just ****'s who don't know how to treat a woman. It's sounds like you have seen more or been through alot and I am sorry for it. But believe me when I tell you not all of us are like that.

2006-10-22 20:29:25 · answer #11 · answered by dorkapoo 1 · 0 0

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