Do your parents know that you view porn?? Your only 14, i'm gonna report you to yahoo and tell them to contact your parents to let them know what you've been up to.
2006-10-22 13:10:52
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answered by Goofy Goofer Goof Goof Goof ! 6
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Peter,
You are too young to label yourself yet. If anybody asks, stick with straight until you are 100% sure- even if you feel you are not. Once you state anything else there is no way you can take it back. Take it from a straight guy - alot of my friends have at times mentioned that they are attracted to members of the same sex. Most of them (male and female) are straight, but you never forget it. Also who cares if you think some guys look hot - you are 14 and admiring how they look. It is the right age for you to be doing that type of thing. You have to know the human body to work out how you feel about your own, and you are bound to see something you like.
You did the right thing by asking a group forum in an anonmous way too. You get to talk to people about it and not be threatened. Good Luck - honestly. But in all seriousness, you are probably straight, as 5/6 people are statistically, so stick to that label for now if you have to apply one, and if you need to talk email people who reply to your q's, chat on yahoo chat and ask your dad or a trusted teacher - he probably did go through the same **** you are.
SHAUN
2006-10-23 03:00:11
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answered by shauny2807 3
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You say your 14, I say don't worry about your sexuality at your age. I was going through the same thing at your age, just don't let it get to you. Nobody is going to care if your gay or straight, ok some people might care, but those people are idiots who need to get a grip on life. The only thing you should be worrying about is your school work and your responsibilities. You have a girlfriend, and you truly love her. I had a girlfriend and I loved her too, but when it came down to it she fully accepted me for who I was and am today when I came out of the closet. Your true friends and family won't care weather you are gay, straight or bi. You have years before you even have to worry about having a sexual relationship. And its true; if you don't know, we don't either. And your probably just curious, so don't worry!
2006-10-22 14:47:36
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answered by monkey_man 2
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At 14 your body is going through some heavy changes. It is releasing all sorts of hormones and things, simply put you are in puberty. I did it, my friends did it, it is very normal. You will find girls attractive, and you will find boys attractive. At this stage of the game it isn't am I gay or Straight, it is normal. Many guys do it, I've looked at the guys in the locker room,, and online to see what the other guy has, it's curiosity. Some guys even get into sex with each other, it's experimenting. Sometimes called a circle jerk, guys will sit around and whip it out to see who was bigger who came first and how much. Just relax and enjoy life, maybe you will experiment? maybe not. Most of the times as the guy gets older and his hormones steady themselves he will realise that he wants women, sometimes he will decide he wants to be with guys. And even sometimes you just never make up your mind and sleep with whatever sex is handy at the time. Just right now don't sweat it. Being bi could have it's benefits. It increases your chance of a date on Saturday night.
2006-10-22 13:33:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Peter, your 14 and you have lots of time to figure this out. At 14 your male body goes through lots of changes. Your hormones levels are changing, your naturally interested in your own sexuality or you wouldn't be asking these kinds of questions. I think you should ask your father, or even your mother. Remember they were your age once too and probably have a good explanation for you. You'ld be surprised they just might know something... Just remember, some things are irreversable so what ever you do make sure its a good decision.
And second leave the computer images of pornography alone, in some states it's illegal, especially if whom your looking at is under 18.
2006-10-22 14:16:09
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answered by Kelly 3
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How can someone make you look at something on the net ? If you like both then you may possibly be bi, it's unlikely you're gay, probably straight just curious ! you've got years ahead to sort it out, relax ! If the person who made you look at the images is much older than you he could be in deep s*** and deserves to be !
2006-10-22 20:33:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I have a lot of gay friends. They say they always knew they were straight. If you are worrying about what you are, odds are you are straight. You don't have to be gay or bi to appreciate a man's or a woman's body. You're 14. You're full of hormones. Either way, you will be fine. Don't make others define you. Life is a journey and you're in the early stages of discovery. So don't freak out.
2006-10-22 13:11:37
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answered by kat h 2
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Maybe you are just bi! If you like girls, then you like boys, try to sleep with either side, and if you like both, game on!!
You hoped you were straight, because you wanted to shoot some cans from a fence or something stupid and Americana as that, be yourself, and NEVER mind what others think, if you love you, then nothing else matters!!
Good luck.
2006-10-23 01:31:39
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answered by Niall S 4
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Why does it have to only be straight/gay/bi? If you haven't had sex yet, you're a virgin. What's wrong with that option? Nothing. And at the age of 14 it is the perfect answer. Heck it's the perfect answer for any age. Is it possible that you just admired those naked men? There's nothing wrong with that. Your eyes are blessed with sight and there's nothing wrong with noticing beauty. It could have been that the nakedness got you excited not the sexual identity of the people. There's nothing wrong with a naked body. What's wrong are the impure thoughts people have when they look at nakedness. The person who asked you to look at porn was in the wrong and sounds like they are lookin at you with sex in mind. Run sweetheart. That's not a friend. If you wanna do a search on porn, search how many lives it is ruining.
2006-10-22 13:48:58
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answered by wv_country_princess 2
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Ur curious... doubt ur gay... people get aroused in many dirrerent ways and to be honest i get turned on by girl on girl... have tried it and liked it yet know i that i would only ever date a bloke... maybe the blokes turned u on for the fact that it was all to do with s3x and at 14 you lot get turned on by anything even more so when the thought of s3x is involved so dont worry.... look around the boys in your year would u like to take them on a date.... and when u answer that u answer ur question... good luck...
2006-10-22 13:47:17
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answered by thenickistar 3
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Well,obviously you're confused.I don't think that human sexuality can easily be categorised into neat labels.Basically,you like what you like.Just because you've been aroused by naked men doesn't mean that you're gay or 'bi'...I suspect that this is fairly common amongst heterosexual males.Another things is that you're very young and you're probably beginning to become more aware of your sexuality.Try not to worry about labelling yourself-you're unique,just like anyone else as regard sexual preference/likes/dislikes.
2006-10-22 13:20:56
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answered by ? 3
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