Well, My boyfriend has some bad habits like drinking too much on the weekends, popping pills, and smoking alot of weed. Hes talked about doing coke but Im not sure if he's done it. Anyways I talk to him how bad it is, and try and persuade to him how horrible drugs, and heavy drinking is. What should I do? I Love Him alot, and If I break up with him he'll think that I didnt love him or ever care about him. But I explain that if I didnt care about him then I wouldnt be telling him how bad his habits are. What should I do?
2006-10-22 12:08:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him that he can either have the drinking and drugs or have you. If he picks the drinking and drugs, leave him. He apparently didn't care about you enough if he chooses them over you.
2006-10-22 12:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the bad habits are making you think twice and that you never wanted to think that way. If you love him a lot you should try and help him get rid of this nasty stuff he is doing. Just be a good support unless you really want to break it off.
2006-10-22 12:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I'm a very strong advocate of tough love, and things that were "meant to be". So my PERSONAL OPINION would be to follow through with the one thought you just had...
"I Love Him alot, and If I break up with him he'll think that I didnt love him or ever care about him. "
Break up with him. If it's meant to be, he'll come back - CLEAN. If you're worried that he might think you didn't love him, then ask yourself what he thinks about you now, and your opinions.
Now these are my own opinions, and I'm very strict on the tough-love policy within my own life.
You can stick with it, if you want, and try to help him. But I can tell you it's going to get worse before it gets better. What you're dealing with right now will be NOTHING compared to the withdrawal symptoms he's going to go through.
2006-10-22 12:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by ltygress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lose him quicker! He's a loser, if he really cared about himself and you, he wouldn't do those things. His behavior is unacceptable. If you stay with him you are saying it's ok.
2006-10-22 12:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like a really great preson that doesnt need a guy that is a druggy
i think u should dumb the loser and be happy single
2006-10-22 17:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save yourself a lot of pain and forget this loser headed down a 1 way path to nothingness
2006-10-22 12:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, well its a bad habit.you got that down now go schedule a physical therapist for him so he or she can fix him out for you.then, just see how it works.
2006-10-22 12:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all have bad habits of some description
2006-10-22 12:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by slippery seal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that if he doesn't stop that you'll dump him. You're doing it for his own good so you shouldn't feel bad about it.
2006-10-22 12:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him choose, the habits or you!
2006-10-22 12:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋