i dont like it as much as i used to i am actually tired of it! its the same thing every time.., i never have gotten off from it... so i started to stop having sex i would make an excuse i am tired. and whatever then when he would get made he would say i am 22 years old i am suppose to have sex and blah blah blah... he uses his age like i care... he tells me he loves me and whatever but theres not a nigth where we dont fight baout sex! i always almost say no! its just annoying when he gets mad i just want him to understand tht i want to have a relationship based more on feelings and not sex! and we figth so much thoruhg out the day he doesnt even deserve sex! so what should i do? do i get rid of him and find a man who will like me for me and not always want sex or stay with him and find a way to make things diff. we have been together for 2 years
2006-10-22 12:07:39 · 6 answers · asked by No 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow. sugar, sometimes when you stop wanting to have sex with someone it's because you're no longer attracted to him. move on.
2006-10-22 12:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard to find a guy to will love you and won't want sex. Every guy needs sex, why? I have no idea.
The thing is, the more you have sex, the more you will crave it. Believe me, I tried it and it's ture. I didn't want sex all the time, I was too tired, didn't feel like it and I realised I was disappointing my fiance. So I tried it, and I crave it more often (which is good news for my man). Why don't you try spicing it up a bit, have sex so that you will enjoy it, whether it be role playing, dressing up, kinky toys. Try a lot of foreplay, after awhile you will want to give into it.
You can have a relationship based on feelings, but where are the feelings & passion without the sex?
Don't think of it as pornographic, think of it as a beautiful moment with the man you love.
Don't throw away those 2 years together over fights about sex.
2006-10-22 19:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in a relationship your sex drive is different than that of your partners. He has two choices, if he loves you enough then he should accept you the way you are and not try to change you or he can move on with his life if he feels the only qualities that are important are sexual. He needs to be more understanding to your needs and not get hung up on his age and what he thinks your sexual life should be like because of that factor..
2006-10-22 19:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex IS important. Women want to have sex when they feel loved. Men feel loved when they have sex, (when it's with someone they love).
2006-10-22 19:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is important beacuse they like you more in a way and its pretty cool cause the person u love likes u more
2006-10-22 19:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go into a convent. This way you will have someone that will understand you without sex.Do your man a favor and do it.
2006-10-22 19:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋