2006-10-22 11:54:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well why do you think you aren't good enough for him? Are you cheating on him, stealing from him, beating him, demeaning him? I mean we need to know why you "know" you aren't good enough for him in order to help. I do think it sounds like you have some self-esteem and self-acceptance issues possibly and I think you should focus on those if that is the case.
2006-10-22 11:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by jaylynn_tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if he is right for you? I have had my share of relationships and I'm sure there is much more I have yet to learn. I do know this much. Ask yourself why you feel this way? Then look around you. Who do you hang with? Are they a positive in your life or do they always look at everything in a negative way, judging others, name calling, ect. Your boyfriend included. There is no such thing as perfect when it comes to people, maybe flowers. We are all unique in our own special way. Don't ever let someone tell you differently. fallow your gut, heart,and that little red flag that comes up when you feel something isn't right. Someone who says they love and care about you, never goes out of their way to degrade you. Winners hang with winners, as Do Losers hang with losers. Trust me you will have many more opportunities in life to meet more interesting guys that will love you for you just the way you are. Anyone who thinks they are better then someone else most likely is hiding from their own insecurities
2006-10-22 19:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yoa u shouldnot tell urselt that u r not good enough for someone, we r ladies and we run things ok. so please trust me ur bf should b the 1 saying that he does not deserve u. in this day and time we call the shots here, not no man. we have to make these no good, good for nothing guys work for their place and work really because u know what we r worth it. u don't have to do nothing but to start telling urself u look 2 good to be stressing over stress...(bf) and believe me the min u start not worrying or stress out urself. ur bf would start worrying b/c he would see that u r not taking him on, they like when there is a girl stressing over them. turn the table around and let him be stress out. tell urself every time u fine urself stressing bout him that u look too good to be stressing. give him the work come on, don't be worked.
2006-10-22 19:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek therapy. You sound like you have low self-esteem, which may very well hurt your relationship (and you!). You might also be using this (unintentionally) as a way to get out of your current relationship. Maybe you should take some time to concentrate on yourself, learn to be good enough for yourself.
2006-10-22 18:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by livesimply 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to believe a lie you are as good as you want to be why don't you try respecting yourself look deep inside of your self you are a person worthy to be loved so stop feeling sorry for your self and start feeling good about yourself you can't be happy with anyone else until you are happy with yourself.
2006-10-22 19:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stay with him if you for sure think you're not good enough for him.
2006-10-22 19:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by Shrimpy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that to the world you might be just one person but also remember that to one person you might just be the world...good luck
2006-10-22 18:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what really going on and if that is so you need to leave
2006-10-22 18:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by SexyT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suffer from clinical depression. get on some pills...FAST!!!
2006-10-22 18:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by spock78765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋