My boyfriend and I just broke up and you know that I am so heart broken right now can anyone give me some encouraging words or advice I would appreciate it thanks
2006-10-22 11:51:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's hard to lose a relationship - everyone puts time and effort into their relationships and it is GOING TO HURT.
Just know that there are billions of people in the world, and that time will heal all wounds.
It's easier to look BACK and say "wow I really am better off now" but at the time, your mind just wont acknowlege it!
Trust those who have gone before you, and know that the BEST time to meet someone is when you HONESTLY BELIEVE that you DONT NEED TO BE WITH SOMEONE TO BE HAPPY.
Accepting life the way it comes is all you can do.
If you have never read it - check out the "SERINITY PRAYER"
I use it all the time to encourage myself and others.
Good luck !
2006-10-22 11:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by kswildangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there too... it is not easy, best thing you can do is change your routine and find some thing to get involved with "not some one" some thing!!! I started singing karaoke online... just an example... you dont want to do the same thing's you both use to do, dont obsess over it... when you start thinking about him, take a deep breath and know that life can go on, it's hard right now... do some self talk, you are independant and you dont have to have him to survive or go on... it's dificult I know but this will help you through what you feel is kinda like a death, you really morn the same way... let go of anger as it only makes a person bitter... love the time you did have, be thankful for the memories but allow your self to let go and learn from the relationship... it will make your next one even stronger... hope this helps! I know the heart broken pretty well and I am extra sensative!
2006-10-22 12:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone likes you so much as to ask this question for you... you must search no further as for a reason to live. There is nothing better than a good friend when things are not right and we are not at our best. Remember those who have been there for you, even when they may have left they believed in you. Count all of those you are here now for you, they are here because they care and believe you make their life worth living. Imagine those that you can care for, those that you can give a hand to enriched by the experience you are going through. Godspeed... You already have the blessings, I can see that.
2016-03-28 04:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to shead tears and get all the negative feelings. It will take time,but don't let this break up take over your life. Because if you do, then you will always be holding on to something that will never happen. It is better to pull yourself together and as strong women we are, get back on our feet and do things that makes us feel proud of ourselves and to reflect what the things that one might have done to contribute to the break up and learn from it. So when the right person comes along we will not commit the same mistakes. Always praing and asking God for streangth to look towards the future. You will make it through!!!
2006-10-22 11:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by SuNsHiNe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will give you the same advice that I gave my son when he broke up with his gf of 5 years. "Even if the person is the right one for you, if you are not the right one for them, it will never work." It really doesn't matter how much you love a person, if they don't love you back the relationship cannot work.
Just let time pass and the hurt will fade.
2006-10-22 11:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy and you'll forget about him. That's the best way to get over someone but if you really loved him then you will never forget him because he may played an important role in your life besides a BF..dont worry **** happens.
2006-10-22 12:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shrimpy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am actually divorced & the only thing that got me through was 1Peter 5:10. Look it up, it will really help you.
Another relief I found was to keep busy. Don't sit around thinking about what was & could have been. Just have fun & stay occupied.
2006-10-22 11:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by nana kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compared to things that will happen to you in your lifetime, losing a boyfriend is at the bottom of the barrel. You are your own person, pick yourself up and get back into life. That is the best way to get over anything....don't dwell.
2006-10-22 11:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been heart broken too, and I married a wonderful man. it does pass, sometimes it takes time, but the best thing to do is not think of him and try to get some thing good to think about. look at other guys and look for things you like about them. ask another boy out. one who is on the top of your cute list.
2006-10-22 11:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it's awful! just know that TIME is the only thing that will make it better and it absolutely will, even though i sounds not very encouraging right now. just tell yourself that 3 months even 3 weeks from now it won't be this bad!
2006-10-22 11:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by blahblah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋