Write lots of letters. They don't have to be long and can simply communicate the daily stuff of your life. The friend has access to television in a federal prison so the best news you can pass on would be the personal stuff.
Inbound and outbound mail is read so use some wisdom in what you write.
Be cheerful and upbeat. Occasionally ask them for help on an issue - it will help give them a feeling of self-worth.
Ask questions in order to keep a two-way street of communication going.
Maintaining outside relationships is absolutely essential for one who is incarcerated.
Good on YOU for caring.
(From someone who worked for 11 years in the most secure Federal Correctional complex in the country.)
2006-10-22 11:32:48
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answered by WindWalker10 5
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Well the best thing that you can do for now is to just keep doing what your doing at best but if you really want to get closer to him then maybe you should arrange a special time and place where you and him could meet and maybe move down there if you miss him too much. Hope I helped !
2016-05-21 23:12:24
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answered by ? 4
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Send some money they have to pay for everything.If they are your friend help him keep his dignity while he's incarcerated.They depend on the outside to keep them informed.Write them a few lines and send cards and pictures when you have time. Unless you want to foot a phone bill. Advice from the wise you don't want to do that it can become too costly. Comments concerning men losing there man hoods is obscene.If you are a man and you know how to carry yourself it doesn't happen.That one reason they need friends and family to send them money. They don't have to ask for favors and it avoids unnecessary altercations.
2006-10-22 11:39:13
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answered by Nai Nai 2
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Well by now you could park a car in the @sshole his cellmate has given him. Get him some KY Jelly to assist 'Bubba" in sliding inside him. Also some floss, them Black boys like their b1tches to have clean teeth when performing..and of course.THEY ARE ALL INNOCENT HAHAHA
2006-10-22 11:26:58
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answered by Anonymous
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just got out 5 yr bid. send money so he can eat, and mail that smells good.(body spray,ect)keep up with it like a job it means alot fed time is cake 24 aint bad
2006-10-22 11:33:09
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answered by chain gang 1
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Well you may be able to send him money, that is the only helpful thing I can think of..He has no way of makling money where he is.. Please be careful..dont bite off more than you can chew..
2006-10-22 11:28:41
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answered by dr.pepper106 7
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Write letters. I know that nobody does that in age of email, but it really helps.
2006-10-22 11:29:14
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answered by D'archangel 4
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Write to them regularly, they would really appreciate that and it will give them something to look forward to.
2006-10-22 11:28:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Rob a bank and go join him.
2006-10-22 11:28:28
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answered by u loser 2
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send money
2006-10-22 11:27:08
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answered by Quociana L 3
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