After me and my boyfriend have sex we both are very sore, how can we fix this.?

Question

It feels like its burning but only on the outside of my vagina, and then it sweels up pretty bad. His is burning and it starting to get rubbed raw.

Answer 1

I think the real answer in to this question has to do with size. If you haven't been very sexually active your vagina is not going to be able to tolerate a lager man if you know what I mean. That will cause the both of you to have some discomfort after intercourse. Using the personal lubricants will help but you will also need to not be so tense during sex. If you are tense then ALL your muscles will contract thereby making your vaginal opening even smaller.

Answer 2

I think this may be caused by a simple yeast infection. Either way, you have to see a doctor and BOTH of you need to get treated. There isn't supposed to be a burning sensation, you should be producing enough lubrication. Don't try the lubes before you rule out the yeast infection and STDs, some can make it even worse.

Answer 3

Either you are dry and the friction is bad.

or

You may have that HPV virus. I had the same prob and got tested for all the STI's and the one for HPV came back....they have an immunization for it now...but if you have it, it is too late. If you do have it...there are diff types. Some types are the bad ones that can cause cervical cancer...but there are no other symptoms. The other obvious versions are warts, which I never had.

Answer 4

There are a couple of possibilities here. One is that you may have a yeast infection. While yeast infections commonly are associated with a thick white discharge, in many cases, the infection is characterized by redness of the skin alone.
Vaginal yeast infections are caused by a fungus know as Candida albicans. Yeast infections can be very uncomfortable, but are usually not serious. Symptoms include the following:
· Itching and burning in the vagina and around the outside of the vagina (the vulva, the "lips" of skin that surround your vagina)
· A white vaginal discharge that may look like cottage cheese
· Pain during sexual intercourse
· Swelling of the vulva
Yeast infections are so common that ¾ of women will have one at some time in their lives. Half of all women have more than one infection in their lives. If you have symptoms of a yeast infection, your doctor will probably want to talk to you about your symptoms and examine you to make sure a yeast infection is the cause.
Causes
Yeast are tiny organisms that normally live in small numbers on the skin and inside the vagina. The acidic environment of the vagina helps keep yeast from growing. If the vagina becomes less acidic, too many yeast can grow and cause a vaginal infection.
The acidic balance of the vagina can be changed by your period (menstruation), pregnancy, diabetes, some antibiotics, birth control pills and steroids. Moisture and irritation of the vagina also seem to encourage yeast to grow.
Treatment Options
Yeast infections are usually treated with medicine that you put into your vagina. This medicine may be a cream that you insert in your vagina with a special applicator, or it may be a suppository that you put into your vagina and allow to dissolve on its own. Medicine in a cream form can also be put on your vulva to help relieve the itching on the outside. Medicine in a pill form that you take by mouth is also available
Be sure to see your doctor the first time you have symptoms of a yeast infection. It's very important to make sure you have a yeast infection before you start taking medicine. The symptoms of a yeast infection can also be the symptoms of other infections. Treating yourself for a yeast infection when you actually have another type of infection may make the problem much worse.
If you have often been diagnosed with yeast infections, talk to your doctor about using a medicine you can buy without a prescription.
Avoiding Yeast Infection
Here are things you can do to help prevent another yeast infection:
· Don't wear tight-fitting or synthetic-fiber clothes.
· Wear cotton panties.
· Don't wear pantyhose or leotards every day.
· Use your blow dryer on a low, cool setting to help dry your genital area after you bathe or shower and before getting dressed.
· Wipe from front to back after using the toilet. This may help prevent the bacteria that normally live in your rectum from getting into your vagina.
· Change out of wet swimsuits or other damp clothes as soon as you can.
· Don't douche or use feminine hygiene sprays, deodorant sanitary pads or tampons, or bubble bath, and avoid using colored or perfumed toilet paper. These items seem to affect the balance of acidity of the vagina and can lead to symptoms of a yeast infection.

A SECOND possibility is that you may be having some atrophic vaginitis. Up to 40 percent of postmenopausal women have symptoms of atrophic vaginitis. Because the condition is attributable to estrogen deficiency, it may occur in premenopausal women who take antiestrogenic medications (such as Tamoxifen), or who have medical or surgical conditions that result in decreased levels of estrogen. The thinned endometrium and increased vaginal pH level induced by estrogen deficiency predispose the vagina and urinary tract to infection and mechanical weakness. The earliest symptoms are decreased vaginal lubrication, dryness, itching, burning, pain with intercourse, and feeling of pressure. The use of estrogen either in pill form or through the use of vaginal creams is very effective at relieving these symptoms. These are medications given by prescription and are not prescribed in patients with a strong family history of breast, uterine or ovarian cancer.

Answer 5

Sounds like an STI, go to your local clinic and get checked out thats not normal.

Answer 6

QUIT SCREWING 40 TIMES A DAY LIKE JACK RABBIT LAY OFF FOR A WHILE THATS WHY YOUR SO SORE AND WORE OUT HERE HONS, NO WONDERR HES RAW YOU A SEX ALOCHALLICC, AND GET YOUR KEISTER TO SEE A DOCTOR YOU GOT SERIOUS PROBLEMS WITH YOUR OVEN.

Answer 7

Both of you need to go and get checked. It could just be friction, but you need to be checked for STD's.

Answer 8

Ummm...I think that you should go the the doctor becuase that doesnt sound normal.

Answer 9

personal lubrication.Go see a doctor just in case.

Answer 10

Try some lubricant, like KY jelly or others.