2006-10-22 10:45:10 · 11 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hate to give answers that are so black or white, but I say yes; give em' the boot. They'll tell you how it was a huge mistake, it'll never happen again, bring all your emotional attatchments into play to try and convince you to stick around and we all know we want to, but it will infact happen again. The only variable is will they learn from their mistakes and hide it better next time?
2006-10-22 10:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness can only happen if the person is remorseful,shown by her actions, not her words that she is indeed finished with cheating.but it is something that will always be in the back of ones mind,and when we forgive and forget and resume the relationship we again open ourselves up, and there are no guarantees with any relationship, unmarried or married.depends on her attitude toward what she did, is she willing to be accountable, does she admit wrong, and truly want forgiveness, or did it just not work out for her and the other man?depends why she wants to come back?relationships are risky because they have not had thieir boundaries respected by the other person.you have to set boundaries, if not you could come out feeling used, put down, and let down.
2006-10-22 20:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the boot permanently. How could you ever trust that person again? Once the trust is gone the relationship is dead. Good luck and god bless.
2006-10-22 17:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are millions of women who are worth forgiving. Yu have to decide several things.
Can you forget, and go ion with a life with her. Will she stop. If so go for it. If not than you should seperate and get on with your life.
Does she really love you? not if she cheats. You have to understand that now, and go from there.
2006-10-22 17:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after someone cheats on you the romance is dead the cheater leaves the other feeling insecure always wondering if the person they cheated with was a better lover a better person ext......not to mention the trust is dead and you can always try to make it work usually to no avail dont make yourself miserable give em the boot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-22 17:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by asspedition 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, forgive her because hate will do nothing but hurt you in the long run. But, if you cheated, she will most likely do it again.
2006-10-22 17:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you bud. You know this person. Do you think she is the type to do it again? Can you forgive and trust again? You have to answer those questions.
2006-10-22 17:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them and it was a mistake and they won't do it again. It is a process you go through before you can trust again, but go for it. If the person does it all the time get rid of them. I did it once before, I was forgiven and never did it again.
2006-10-22 17:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well alot of times if it happens once it will happen again. But this has to be your call that nobody can answer for you. How does your heart feel. It will hurt both ways, letting go and letting her stay with you.
2006-10-22 17:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by mystic red knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. You forgive her because it is the best thing to do for your mental health. Then you dump her as fast as you can.
2006-10-22 17:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋