I did something horrible! I told my best friend's girl that I slept with him while they were together. It is true, but I swore that I would never tell. I just thought she needed to know and I was kinda hoping that she would leave him and he would come running to me! Now I am scared that I am going to lose my best friend. She doesn't know yet though -- I told her in a letter that she should get tommorrow. What do I do to save my friendship?
2006-10-22 10:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by OH NO! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've learned the hard way that no boy is worth the value of a best girlfriend.
I think you'll just have to learn from this experience and take what consequences come your way.
Some lessons in life have to be learned unpleasantly. I hope your girlfriend is forgiving and that you have learned your lesson.
My favorite expression is: THOSE WHO PLAY, PAY.
2006-10-22 10:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly honey, you really did mess up. If there is nothing you can do to stop the letter, I suggest you come up clean with him first before he finds out through her. He's going to be extremely angry with you and it will put a huge strain on your friendship. Be honest and start apologizing now!
I know this doesn't provide you with any helpful, useful information. I'm sorry.
2006-10-22 10:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by lady_nessa02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you will just have to give it time. You weren't a very good friend... You've got to think about that. You put a boy between you and your friend. If you lose her friendship, you can't blame anyone but yourself. Try to be true to your friend in the future. Good luck.
2006-10-22 10:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you will need to ask her forgiveness, but it takes two to tango. She may dump you and her bf. He may or may not come running to you. He may have confessed to her already. If this friendship you have is truly "best", be prepared to grovel.
2006-10-22 10:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you want your best friend to be more. Be truthful to your best friend, tell him you wanted him to come running to you. Just be honest. You may have blown it. Something tells me you wanted this drama.
2006-10-22 10:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over.
2006-10-22 10:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Answers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything you can do. It sounds like you weren't a very good friend anyway.
2006-10-22 10:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by tncoronado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait outside her house til the mail is delivered and take the letter back.
2006-10-22 10:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by tma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing, just cut your losses and find a man who isnt in a relationship....
2006-10-22 10:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.... Well you can hope that it doesn't get to them... or you can just pray... I dont know...
2006-10-22 10:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by giovanni1928 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋