i was goin 2 meet this lad i met off da net (an he wasn a perv cus iv spoke 2 him on fone an stuff) and my m8 was goin 2 *** but my m8 was running late an i had 2 meet him at 3.30 cus he had 2 go at 4.45 and cus my m8 was l8 i cudn c him an wen i txted him 2 tell him he got real peed off wit me when it wasnt my fault and ive tried to tell him but now i dont hear anything from him :( i wud go 2 c him but he lives in london which is really far from me and saturday was the only tym i cud c him cus he cant get 2 birmingham. im really angry with my m8 but i dnt wana fall out wit her cus of him but i really lyk him even tho ive never met him and its gettin me real down that he isnt talkin to me. does anyone know what i can do to make it better or so he can start talkin 2 me again.ive tried textin but he doesnt reply bak and hes neva on msn or anythin!!
2006-10-22 10:32:54 · 17 answers · asked by ♥abi♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he aint an old fogey ppl cus i no ppl that have seen him!!! hes 18 and im 18!
2006-10-22 10:49:58 · update #1
Not a good idea, meet in a public area tell him to wear some thing so you will recognise him. Then decide if you you want to see him.
2006-10-22 10:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by lobo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because your online "friend" was frightened off that you would bring another with you.
A sure sign of a PERV, and you got very lucky. You can NOT tell someone's character by a phone conversation.
Dont be angry at your mate. She might have let you down, but if anything had happened, it would have been your own fault. Don't even THINK about going down to London, even if this guy decides to return your mails.
By the way, he WILL eventually return your contact attempts because you keep dangling the "bait." Get smart and stop this kind of behavior.
2006-10-22 17:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Vince M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know it is difficult for you but you gotta let it go - he obviously doesn't think as much of you as you do him, else he would have respected your decision to put your safety first and not meet him without your mate. If he really was interested then he would be on the phone with you now arranging a time when it was convenient for you BOTH to meet him. Instead he is acting like a pig headed sh*t. - I know it is cliche, but there are plenty more out there girl. YOU GO GET 'EM - You've got more dignity than to keep going after this **** hole!!
2006-10-22 17:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like some of the others have said just be careful, You can't tell a persons real behaviour by just a phone conversation !.
If you have to meet him do it in a place of your choice and make sure you have a few friends with you, if he thinks anything of you and is genuine this should not be a problem to him !.
2006-10-22 17:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by TwiceShyGuy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but its sounds like he wasnt all that after all.
If he was genuine he would of understood about your mate.
There are phycos out there you CANNOT EVER meet anyone from the net by your self.
Go out with your mate, make friends, the right chap will come along sooner or later.
PLEASE TAKE CARE x x
2006-10-22 17:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Errm get a life...He's not a perv because you talked to him on the phone and stuff, Thats ok then,
you must trust alot of people you talk on the phone to but have never met,
2006-10-22 17:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by mad_ness777 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
giv him time!!!!...if e dont anser in the nx day or 2 the tx him again 2 tell him that u'v dun nowt wrong as u woz only passin the msg ova....let me know how u get on
2006-10-22 17:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by blonde streaks 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As you can't talk to him face to face, leave him a email explaining everything. ok, i can understand him getting a little upset, but he should at least give you the chance to explain, if he doesn't reply to your email, then he isn't worth it
2006-10-22 17:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he cant come and visit you in birmingham because the battery on his mobility cart will run out. get it!
2006-10-22 17:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by sherminator 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have answered your own question he doesn't want anything to do with you when he won't reply
2006-10-22 17:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ivan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋